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Should I Wait Around for Him?

Dear Advice Girl,

I've been talking to this guy for a while and I found out he likes me. But there's one problem...he has a girlfriend! He says that if they break up, he'll go out with me, but he wants to see if it will work out between them first. Should I wait around or what? Help!

Signed,
   So Lost

Dear So Lost,

Don't you dare wait around for him! Here's why:

  • If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, you will have just spent a million hours freaking out and biting your fingernails when you would've been much better off using that time to get over him.

  • If he decides to ditch his girlfriend and ask you out, you can still say yes if you want. But who knows - maybe between then and now you'll have met a guy who's even better. So don't take yourself off the market.

  • If he knows you're not gonna wait by the phone for him, it might push him to choose between you and his girlfriend more quickly.

  • And the biggest reason: if he doesn’t think you're special enough to be his hands-down, one-and-only girl, then you shouldn't treat him like he's special enough to keep you holding your breath.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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yeah dont wait there are other guys out there who are single
britt155, 15, Davenport, IA
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definitaly- if he does ditch her at first he cant like u that much!
blondie24_7_365, 14, South Africa
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i definitely wouldn't wait 'cause you're probably gonna get your heart broke by him.
arwenundomiel, 13, Franklinville, NY
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if you really think he's worth it then wait for him but dont turn down anyone along the way cause you may find someone way better who you can really see yourself with...
kara1994, 15, Germantown, OH
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true..
ilyxbombchick, 16, Victorville, CA
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true..
ilyxbombchick, 16, Victorville, CA
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i think thts completely right!!!
sgkblove, 14, Eufaula, AL
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I haad a similar situation except the rlfriend was my little sister! Don't wait around! Move on and let him see just what he is missing and how happy you are! It will be worth it I promise!!!
nakkisha, 17, Shoals, IN
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DO NOT WAIT because guys will forget all about you...
kayla96744, 13, Kaneohe, HI
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do not wait around. then he will think he can have two girls at one time. and thats just not right. it has happened to me before. trust me. not fun and totally not worth it.
karinaheartsyou, 17, Marble Falls, TX

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