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Can I Go Out With a New Guy Yet?

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, and there's this guy that I really like who wants to ask me out. But I'm afraid to go out with him because my ex still has feelings for me. What should I do?

Signed,
   Moogle

Dear Moogle,

You're acting like you're stuck inside a dating prison and can't go free till your ex-boyfriend is over you. Don't be so hard on yourself! As long as you feel ready to date again, you can do it.

And don't sweat too much about your ex. You'll sort of be doing him a favor: when he sees that you've moved on, it'll help him get over you a little faster (even if it bums him out in the short-term).

You've both gotta get on with your lives! Don't be afraid to take the first step.

(Get more breakup advice on my Facebook and Twitter pages!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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sorry but how can i send a question cause when i hit submit question i never see the advice givinq
kirilubb012, 14, Bronx, NY
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do what you feel is right in your own point of view, if you like the guy, go out with him, if u still have feelings 4 ur ex, reconcile
anislandbabe, 13, Botswana
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Follow you're heart.
mokutless, 18, Thayer, MO
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if you dont have feelings 4 ur ex go out w/ the other guy
megamee, 16, Little Sioux, IA
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if you feel like your ready to date again go for it, because if ur waiting for u ex to get over u, wat happens if he never gets over you
afcadet, 16, Jersey City, NJ
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i agree with the kid below
xxjazzymaexx, 17, Dallas, GA
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A month...ive had a rebound of like 5 mins...if you feel ok do it
deano_6, 17, Australia
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If its over & you feel good & ready to move on then you owe it to yourself to do that. You cant wait on him to be over you because you just don't know how long that'll be.If you feel like its right for you & your heart then do so!!
xmaribaybehx, 17, Orlando, FL
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Advice girl is a girl who gives good advice. Said the wise chicken.
superflyski, 16, Lincoln, NE
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There is a reason why you broke with your ex so why should you hold back to get this new guy because you ex still has feelings for you. If you don't like him then don't hold back
anthonyowusu, 13, Chesapeake, VA

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