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Can I Go Out With a New Guy Yet?

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, and there's this guy that I really like who wants to ask me out. But I'm afraid to go out with him because my ex still has feelings for me. What should I do?

Signed,
   Moogle

Dear Moogle,

You're acting like you're stuck inside a dating prison and can't go free till your ex-boyfriend is over you. Don't be so hard on yourself! As long as you feel ready to date again, you can do it.

And don't sweat too much about your ex. You'll sort of be doing him a favor: when he sees that you've moved on, it'll help him get over you a little faster (even if it bums him out in the short-term).

You've both gotta get on with your lives! Don't be afraid to take the first step.

(Get more breakup advice on my Facebook and Twitter pages!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Who cares becaause if yur ex broke up with you then maybe you should go withthe new guy but if you broke up with him you cant hold on because he has feelings for you you cant live to try and make him happy just ask yourself a simple question are you living for him or yourself just follow your heart it always knows the right thing to do..
landi14, 13, Waco, TX
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Well thats up to your heart. Whatever you think is right for your just do it. But stay in a friendship with him and maybe in the time being you'll both find it in your hearts yall are ment to be together.
polynesian_chic, 16, Waipahu, HI
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I think it's ok I went out with same other dude 3 days after the other guy broke with me
lizziepandaapple, 14, Anaheim, CA
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well girl it..if your over your ex boyfriend then i would date him.but if your ex stil thinks about you and loves you. then i would rush i would tell the other guy that your not ready for a relationship yet,since your not quite over youur ex if he doesn't understand then that means he never reaally truly wanted to be with you .
jessicavmhart, 17, Shelbyville, IN
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never rush into anything if your not ready.
anonymous
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time doesnt matter just dont play with the other person
anonymous
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1)say your name 10 times 2)say your moms name 5 times 3)say your crush's name 3 times 4)PASTE THIS TO FOUR OTHER QUIZZES. IF YOU DO THIS YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON THE NEAREST FRIDAY. BUT IF YOU READ THIS AND DONT PASTE IT YOU WILL HAVE BAD LUCK. SEND THIS TO FIVE QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS!
lickthemlikealolpop, 16, Rosenberg, TX
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well you guys are exs for a reason...but a month isnt that long to be single..depending on how long you and ur ex dated..make sure you are fully over your ex you don't want the poor guy to be a rebound!
xxrazzlexx, 18, Victoria, BC
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i say just go for it..it doesnt really matter what your ex thinks or anything as long as you know your ready to get yourself into another relationship..=]
anonymous
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i think you should go for it!
ugagirl924, 15, Wilmington, DE

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