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How Should I Break Up With Him?

Dear Advice Girl,

I want to break up with my boyfriend but I don't know how to do it! Should I break up with him or should my friend do it for me?

Signed,
   Diane

Dear Diane,

There's only one reason to get your friend to dump your guy for you: you're a chicken who's too afraid to do it herself.

You don't wanna be a chicken, do you? Of course not.

Grow up and do your own dirty work. (And not over IM or a text message. In person.) Your boyfriend deserves at least enough respect to hear the bad news from you. Yes, it's still gonna hurt him - but it'll hurt him less than if he has to hear it through a friend.

Besides - if you're mature enough to date, then you're mature enough to dump. Right?

(Get more breakup advice on my Facebook page!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Definitely do it yourself, and most importantly in person.
mokutless, 18, Thayer, MO
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u should b the one to break up w/ him it wont b as wierd
megamee, 16, Little Sioux, IA
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Dudeee, I has my friend do that with my ExEx- and Oh, Boy! Its awkward. With my last boyfriend though, I broke up with him. And were friends. :)
smsdancerrr, 13, Saint Louis, MO
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waaaa..this probz is the same of mine+_+ huhhuhuhhuhu
langga4me, 19, Philippines
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umm noo..he wuld totaly hate u for that..(having your friend break up for you)
hungirl, 15, Allston, MA
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well me to i have a boyfriend i dont like him anymore, i like his best friend s me and hes friend go out but he dind know that yet so i talk to him i tell him that he to shy for me an we breack up
mariecynthia, 16, Fort Lauderdale, FL
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that iz wat i am goin thru now i dont wanna hurt him so i dont want to do it
msbossie21, 16, Birmingham, AL
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i once got ma friend to do it and ma x cersed me out and now its weird to see him so now i break up wit him in person WITOUT ANYONE AROUND INCASE HE CRYS U DONT WANT TO EMBARRACE HIM INFRONT OF UR FRIENDS...
jberman77, 13, Maywood, NJ
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thanks for giving me that adivce for how to break up with ma boyfriend i really needed it THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
foxythangs, 16, Buffalo, NY
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I'm like so in the same situationnn. & I almost had my friend breakup with him for me but I felt like it was rude so yeahh,do it yourselff.That way when you see him around it will be less awkward.
tanzii, 17, Henderson, TX

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