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I'm kinda stalking my ex-boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend broke up with me and I keep calling and texting him. I’m not trying to be a stalker - I just love him with all my heart and I can’t get over him so I need help!

Signed,
Brittany

Dear Brittany,

If your ex doesn’t like you anymore, then no amount of calling or texting is gonna bring him back. All you’re doing is annoying him (and losing your dignity in the process).

The best policy after getting dumped is to avoid your ex for a while. It makes getting over him a lot easier. (And it makes you look cool and mature, on the off chance that he wants you back.)

So put down your phone and try to get over him. He might come crawling back to you. He probably won’t. Either way, you’ll be out having fun with your friends, missing him less and less every day.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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I kinda do the same thing..but instead of sending his messages and stuff all i do is stare at his facebook page and look at most of the females that say things on his wall that seem a little too friendly..am i being a stalker? I do read his facebook wall about twice a week...maybe more..i hope im not a stalker
beesoprettylikee, 15, Philadelphia, PA

by stalking him you're only hurting yourself in the process, it's better to just let go. you'll survive
jessie525, 16, Trinidad and Tobago

Leave him alone, he dont want you...maybe he ll reconsider if he sees that your not errr obsessive, but with ur behavior NOW, there is no way, but if u leave him ALONE, maybe one day you can be friends
sidsqueen, 26, Lubbock, TX

Just don't do it. You will be the better person by letting go.
joehhy, 14, Denver, CO

i have stalked my ex lover now for about 6 years, and im still not over him, he even filed a restrianing order against me at one point, but i was kinda going crazy at the time..
anonymous

I was like that too on my breakup but then i went out with friends blocked his number and all my friends say that im way more fun when im single. i barely even think of him now
xteebonex34, 18, Glendale, AZ