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Is It Bad to Flirt With Your Ex?

Dear Advice Girl,

My ex-boyfriend is dating my best friend, but I still flirt with him all the time. I know it's wrong, but I can't help it! What should I do?

Signed,
Sexy Me

Dear Sexy Me,

It's pretty clear that you're not totally over your ex-boyfriend yet. Part of you still feels that you have a right to flirt with him, since you used to be so close.

But you don't. Flirting is only going to confuse your ex and upset your friend (and you, too, as a matter of fact).

Get over him already and you won't feel the need to act all flirty. Limit the contact that you have with him, and start thinking about other guys you might wanna crush on.

And if your find yourself in a situation where you're forced to hang out with your ex, then have some self control. Being friendly and smiling is okay. Getting touchy-touchy is not.

Love,
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Yeah Best friends don't date other best friends' exes.
ainslovey, 16, Salem, OR

hahaha i flirt with my exs all the time but they flirt first and why is your friend dating your ex anyway but as long as nothing goes down your good honey
originalpaperdoll, 16, Las Vegas, NV

First off your best friend should know not to date your exs. Like honestl. Try not to hang out around them. But if he flirts with you, you need to tell your friend. Trust me this has happened to me before and I started to lose my best friend.
volleyballbabe94, 15, Sylvania, OH

if ur a flirty person then u should flirt
megamee, 16, Little Sioux, IA

If he is dating your best friend then I would not flirt with him. I mean, if she ever caught you then she would not be your friend any more. :(
printer999, 17, Humble, TX

first off y is your bestfriend dating ur ex? its like the first rule in friendship especially if ure bestfriends never date your bestfriend exboyfriend...never ever...dats just wrong on all levels...girl i would have a problem with it..trust me hun...
mafia_shero, 17, St Lucia

yep puerto ricans r fine as fuck i know wat its like bt i learned tat all they do at the end is break ur heart trust they will do it bad! :(
anonymous

i still flirt with 2 of my ex's and there both dating a friend of mine. but the guys don't care cuz they say i was there best and the most dirtest. i can't help it cuz they both are sexy. one is newyorkrican with sexy lips and the other is puerto rican with a long dick. llonglong.g#@*
sugarcuddles, 15, Deltona, FL

DEFINITLY! I think it's ok to flirt wit ur x. cuz., u didn't want him 2 ur boyfriend, but it's soooo fun 2 tease him(if u dumped him)! and u still should keep him interested.
hotness198, 18, Lancaster, PA

umm why would your friend be going out with your ex that is a best friend rule and i flirt with my ex sometimes my friend gets mad at me cause she like him i always tell her `` i dont care if you like him he still likes me so get over it `` . All she says is well i still wanna go out with him i told her she can but how would she feel i was going out with her ex!
littlediva, 15, Jacksonville, FL

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