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He Won't Let Me Break Up With Him!

Dear Advice Girl,

I don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. But every time I try to break up with him, he cries and refuses to let me leave him. What should I do?

Signed,
   Christine

Dear Christine,

If you're not happy with your relationship, it's time to end it already. (What else can you do? Get married and make babies with him just to keep him from crying?)

Breaking up now (rather than months from now) will be easier on him, too. Yeah, it'll still be hard - and he'll still be sad - but it'll keep him from getting even more attached to you, and it'll give him time to adjust to life without you.

So break up with him for good this time. Be nice to him about it, but be firm, too. When the convo ends, it should be clear to him that it's over.

(Get more breakup advice on my Facebook and Twitter pages!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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this happened to me! i was so over it but he kept saying he loved me. i was like NO! but eventually i just told him it was flat out over. and he cried for about 3 weeks but it was what was best...now we're friends so its all cool:) and we are both seeing new people. itll work itself out somehow:)
cheerbaby17, 14, Moseley, VA
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Have a sit down with him, tell him what how you feel, and move on. Don't let him get to you.
mokutless, 18, Thayer, MO
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i would just leave him
megamee, 16, Little Sioux, IA
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go figure that kool
swagga_king504, 18, San Antonio, TX
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all you need to do is tell him its over and if he starts crying walk away
candygirl134, 14, Vancouver, WA
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dont just be a person to cry to tell him stright up how you feel. it couldnt get any wroste now could it?
xxjazzymaexx, 17, Dallas, GA
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just be strong...break up with him..and when he cries or begs you to stay with him just walk away..it may be hard but it'll work
avacado100, 15, Wolfforth, TX
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i understand this. but what if you have dated for almost 2 years? its hard...reall hard to end it.
ecw_18, 16, Dennis, MS
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I totally agree..the more you let him believe that you care the worse it'll be when you try to break up with him later..and for the love of god don't return hysterical voicemails or texts..let him cry it out with his friends not his ex girlfriend
anonymous
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the only thing that matters is your feelings let him cry or he is going to get hurt more then he is now
lilshorty001, 17, Saint Paul, MN

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