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My BFF flirts with my ex-boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

Why is my best friend flirting with my ex-boyfriend in front of me??

Signed,
Julissa

Dear Julissa,

Because she's clueless, and a little selfish too. Clueless because she probably doesn’t even know it’s bugging you. Selfish because she should know it’s bugging you, but she’s having too much fun.

You didn’t tell me who broke up with whom, or how long ago you dated, so I can’t say whether or not it’s wrong for her to go after your ex. If you broke up with him, or if it all ended a long time ago, he’s fair game. But that doesn’t mean your friend can ignore your feelings.

Let her know that seeing it right in front of you makes you uncomfortable. If she doesn’t stop, then quit hanging out around them when they’re together.

Unless you haven’t dated him since, like, 1998. In which case, get over it already.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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ya i think my ex should read this
stormie_02, 15, Ada, OK

my friend brandi always trys to flirt with my ex but my ex really dont care cause he flirts with me wayyyyyyyyyy to much! so im super lucky
littlediva, 15, Jacksonville, FL

That's rather mean of her. Sorry, but it is. If you still have feelings for your ex, it's downright cruel. And even if you've moved on, she's supposed to respect you enough to stay away from your past guys. If she really likes him and wants to be with him (not just flirt casually), then she should make sure it's ok with you first. You have to be sensitive to the feelings of your friends. There's no excuse for not being so.
the_morrigan, 17, Moraga, CA

If ur BBF is flurting withur ex she is an ass
donttellmewhat2do, 15, Edmonton, AB

if she is truly your friend she woudnt do that !!!!
emoangeloflove69, 18, Killeen, TX

well if u don't go out with her then why not let her be happy with him!
libby57, 15, Blackshear, GA

well , i was aware from that so i made rule for my friend ex-boyfriends forget 'em but my friend used t do that julissa and i went to her crush the one who likes and i talked to him then he just give me his phone number infront of her so she was hurt and knew how it feels when she does it with my ex
rony13, 14, Egypt

my bff is actually dating him . it hurt at first but im not going to loose our friendship over my ex. it is pretty wrong, but maybe your bff wants the happiness you had. you just have to be strong .
steffyxbbyx, 16, Homestead, FL