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Dear Advice Girl,
About a month ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. His reason was that I was being distant in our relationship. He also said that he just fell apart and didn’t know what to do.
Should I believe his reason? And what do you think he means when he says he fell apart?
Signed,
Ashlei
Dear Ashlei,
When people dump each other, they usually say a whole lot of garbage that doesn’t really mean anything and is only designed to make you feel better. It sounds like you’ve been fed some of that garbage. (Not that your ex is a bad guy. He was just trying to say "I don't want to date you anymore" in the kindest way he could think of.)
Don’t think too hard about what he said. If he ever wants you back, it’ll be because he changed his mind, or because he misses you, but not because he fell back together or anything.
Love,
The Advice Girl
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take_me_away77, 19, Turlock, CA