Is it bad to crush on many guys at once?

Dear Advice Girl,

I almost always crush on multiple guys at a time. I'm not sure if that is a natural thing, or just plain wrong.

I've had this problem forever, and I don't know what to do. Would you be willing to help me?

Signed,
   Ashley

Dear Ashley,

Not only is it totally common to crush on multiple guys at once, it's also a good idea. Really.

The biggest mistake you can make with a crush is to take it too seriously. Pour all your heart into a guy who might not like you back, and there's a chance you could get badly hurt (or at least waste too much time cyber-stalking him and writing bad poetry).

You're way better off flirting around and keeping your options open. If one guy seems cool, then get to know him better - but don't act like every other guy just dropped off the face of the earth.

That way, you won't get too obsessed with a guy who might not be worth it.