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I live three hours away from my crush!

Dear Advice Girl,

I’ve had a crush on a guy from my class for a long time. We share a lot of the same interests and we’ve become pretty good friends. I never told him my feelings and was pretty happy just being friends.

Signed,
   Laura

Dear Laura,

Tell him! Three hours isn’t all that far. It sounds like the two of you are getting around to seeing each other often enough anyway.

There’s a benefit to being three hours away, too: if you confess your feelings and he doesn’t feel the same way about you, at least you won’t have to run into him every day. A couple hundred miles is an excellent rejection buffer.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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DIS NOT DA STONE AGE BITCH WE HAVE VEHICLES DRIVE!!!!
tillyraz, 16, Suffolk, VA
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Ur luckii he onlii lives 3 hours away make ur move.... Myyne lives 7 hours away and in a different province I see him once every 2 to 3 months... So make ur move before something more drastic happens :)
crazy_joe_123, 14, Leduc, AB
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i would just tell him how you feel, you never know it might work out.....just go for it!!
tinker1895, 16, Anoka, MN
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it could happen, and three hours isnt too bad
anonymous
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i have the same problem the guy i like lives like 2 hours away and i wanna tell him i like him. but im just gonna try and be his friend first and see how things go.
stellar_kayla, 17, New Bedford, MA
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well i have a crush on joe jons and i love him but hes not gonna ever find out.
onehotprincess1992, 17, Mill Creek, WV
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Just because negativity isn't what they're looking for doesn't mean that it isn't valid. Would YOU rather be given the truth or the answer you want to hear?
chelseywa, 20, Prineville, OR
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ok u can still make it happen annymous
supperhottygirl, 15, Silver Spring, MD
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Hey. I'm not trying to make this seem like a put down or anything, but I have some advise for the "Advise girls". All the advise I have seen given so far has been nothing but negative stuff, and no offense or anything, but I don't think that's what these girls are looking for. Obviously, I'm not saying lye, because you should be truthful and if your advise is something negative, just try to aproach it differently, and not in such a rude way. These girls will already feel sad enough that you think they should break up with their boyfriends or whatever, but you should at least give SOME sense of hope for their relationship to work, or some suggestions of how to make their relationship work, instead of saying something like, "umm..sorry, but i dont think your actually in love if you flirted with another guy." Personally, I don't believe that is true, you can be madly in love with your boyfriend and playfully flirt (not giving a lap dance or anything!) with a friend and still be faithful to your beloved one. Because seriously, what draws the line between just talking and flirting, it's a sensable thing for a girl to be attracted to a guy, nothing's wrong with that! I'm not saying, go cheat on your boyfriend! but Advise girl, I just wanted to give YOU (whoever you are) the advise to not be so negative and if you have to be (sense they're looking for the right, truthful answer) give a little hope and sympathy. Thanks, you're a doll.
anonymous
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I have the same problem! All you gotta do is let your friendship grow until it becomes a seed of love :) xoxo ~Muah
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