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I'm white, my crush is black - is that bad?

Dear Advice Girl,

I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him. But that's not the biggest problem. He's black, and I'm white. People tell me that it's bad to mix races when it comes to dating, or worse yet, love. What do I do?

Signed,
   JJ

Dear JJ,

There’s a word for those types of people: racists.

Seriously. The biggest fan in history of keeping races all separate and "pure" was Hitler. You're not gonna take his advice, are you? Eek. No way.

Now, as for the only real issue here: getting your crush to go out with you. Chat him up, get to know him better and give him a chance to know you. Then, when things start to get a little flirty, ask him out.

And if things never get flirty? Then maybe there isn't any chemistry between you. But it'll be because of personality differences and not because of what your great-great-great grandparents looked like.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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I think that it doesn't matter what race you are if you have feelings for each other then it will work out perfect! I am white and my boyfriend is colored and we are a great couple.
julie_h, 13, Turner, ME
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Shoot I had a crush on a Russian dude at one point. I'm over it now but if I didn't have a problem with that then you should either.
jazzy400, 17, Norfolk, VA
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thats sad
travis3420, 36, Duluth, MN
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i think you shouldnt care what other people say because its you who loves him and i reckon you should go for it :)
raradance, 14, United Kingdom
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wow. people are stupid. caring about somebodys skin color? i barely even notice that kind of thing
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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wow. people are stupid. caring about somebodys skin color? i barely even notice that kind of thing
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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I don't understand how anyone could be this ignorant. Of course it's okay!
rattyrain, 16, Avon, IN
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if you really like this boy just go for it and just forget about his skin colour and your skin colour just go for it girl
joantjegirl, 16, Netherlands
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i wouldnt he'd have my head haging from a tree if any body if someone follow his rules here
jzonay97, 14, Castro Valley, CA
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Does it really matter? he likes you+you like him= a lot of very happy people. I have to agree with most everybody else on this. The only thing different about you and him under-the-skin is that he's male and your female... I think. Most likely. ;D
shiann121, 13, Sharon, OK

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