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I'm white, my crush is black - is that bad?

Dear Advice Girl,

I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him. But that's not the biggest problem. He's black, and I'm white. People tell me that it's bad to mix races when it comes to dating, or worse yet, love. What do I do?

Signed,
   JJ

Dear JJ,

There’s a word for those types of people: racists.

Seriously. The biggest fan in history of keeping races all separate and "pure" was Hitler. You're not gonna take his advice, are you? Eek. No way.

Now, as for the only real issue here: getting your crush to go out with you. Chat him up, get to know him better and give him a chance to know you. Then, when things start to get a little flirty, ask him out.

And if things never get flirty? Then maybe there isn't any chemistry between you. But it'll be because of personality differences and not because of what your great-great-great grandparents looked like.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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R u really goin 2 listn 2 those peoples? Theyr racists and don't know anything. Who cares about them, date ur crush if u want 2. It's not what they want, it's what u want.
jonasfan4life, 14, Lisbon, OH
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um HELLO!!! ITS 2010 BITCH WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT GROWN UP!!! And dat gurl unda me iz everywea hey gurl!
tillyraz, 16, Suffolk, VA
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WTF DOSE COLORS GOT TO DO IN MEXICAN AND I WENT OUT WITH A BLACK BOY THEY DIDENT LIKE IT BUT THEY DIDENT HAD TO NOW ABOUT IT AND I STILL HAVE A LITTIE LUV IN MY HEART 4 DJ
jasmine60, 15, Fort Pierce, FL
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I don't think there is anything wrong with dating out side your race. For example I ama young black girl ,but I have a thing for white guys, and almost always fall for them.
real_beauty, 13, Buckeye, AZ
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Go for it gal i have a crush on this guy but his white and im black, i think he likes me so i hangout wiv him sometime
lashana234, 15, United Kingdom
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this isnt the 40s-50s! nothing about a person's religion, race, sex, nationality, or anything else like that matters. i can tell ur parents didnt raise u rite... u need to come to my school and join GET REAL.. seriously, u really need to GET REAL.
raver1826, 16, Windsor, PA
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one word besides all this <- DUMB lots of guys i date are white not a big deal >:( and who ever do are racists
into_the_indie_stuff24, 15, Bloomington, IL
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racist bitch
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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As my friend Jacob once said "you'll make cute little milk chocolate babies "
cupquake, 15, Edmond, OK
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wtf people are hella dumb it dosent matter your race as long as you ywo like each other it dosent matter what other people think love is love
alondrac, 14, Stockton, CA

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