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My Crush Heard Me Talking About Sex!

Dear Advice Girl,

My crush used to act all sweet and lovey. Then he overheard me tell someone I'm waiting till marriage to have sex, and he ignored me for a while. But now he's acting lovey again. Does he like me or not?

Signed,
   Mindfreak Gurl

Dear Mindfreak Gurl,

I'm gonna say something shocking: all guys think about sex. They're not all rabid horndogs about it - in fact, most of them are perfect gentlemen - but mention something sexual and they're bound to listen.

What I'm getting at is, it's possible that your crush isn't a total creep. He might just be a slightly immature, normal teen guy who'll totally respect you and your choices.

On the other hand, he might only be after your bod.

So why not talk to him about it? There's no reason to be shy about this stuff. Tell him you know what he overheard, and that his reaction really weirded you out. If he's a decent guy, he'll take you seriously.

But if he disrespects you for even a second, then forget about him.

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Don't rush into sex...wait for the right guy
deano_6, 17, Australia
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If i heard y gf say that i wouldn't really care, that just means she wants to have sex with a guy she knows she likes, but most guys aren't like me so that probably won't happen much, but i agree you should just talk about it.
waawaawaaaa, 14, Glendale, AZ
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okay yes im a guy so i would know this ive talked to one of my gf a while back about sex and we both agreed that we werent going to do it we were to young and if he cant respect u then u dont need him simple as that
feffaldo, 14, Naples, FL
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im 15 and talking about sex with ur bf is normal i me and my bf 15 talked about sex and and we were both virgens and we had sex its the best thing in the world and now we cant stop doing it its so much fun i love it and we do it every time we feel like it bt my bf get mad when i just turn him on he says that it hurts him because he gets boners
anonymous
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he should act his age not his shoe size
mustang89, 16, Warrensburg, NY
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you absaoloute bloody weirdo he mite be a bloody virgin for all u no an he mite have a tinkle tube the size of rake with hard spiky bits at the end u dont wanna go there let him feel self conchous in his own mind dont mess with rake he mite be a complete wuss an be too scared to get a condom
anonymous
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he propably felt weird overhearing yu talking bout sex. he probably felt ok and got over the awkwardness after which made him act sweet again.
anonymous
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haha horndog :D
killusers1994, 15, Milwaukee, WI
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will you need to stop thinking of what he likes or not like just act you self and you will find the guy that really love you and care about you
curt37, 15, Fresno, CA
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congrats! on ur decision, but if he came back he obveuosly took into consideration of how u feel so dont act like he did anything wrong he was just thinking.
sjbm1493, 16, Philipsburg, PA

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