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My Crush Heard Me Talking About Sex!

Dear Advice Girl,

My crush used to act all sweet and lovey. Then he overheard me tell someone I'm waiting till marriage to have sex, and he ignored me for a while. But now he's acting lovey again. Does he like me or not?

Signed,
   Mindfreak Gurl

Dear Mindfreak Gurl,

I'm gonna say something shocking: all guys think about sex. They're not all rabid horndogs about it - in fact, most of them are perfect gentlemen - but mention something sexual and they're bound to listen.

What I'm getting at is, it's possible that your crush isn't a total creep. He might just be a slightly immature, normal teen guy who'll totally respect you and your choices.

On the other hand, he might only be after your bod.

So why not talk to him about it? There's no reason to be shy about this stuff. Tell him you know what he overheard, and that his reaction really weirded you out. If he's a decent guy, he'll take you seriously.

But if he disrespects you for even a second, then forget about him.

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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bitch u best stop playin and giv dat shit up it aint dat gud it prolly smell lyke crab cakes
tillyraz, 16, Suffolk, VA
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Boys are just very obbsessed with sex my boy cousin talks about it in front of me and trust me he was just kinda embarassed he over heard
farmchic23, 13, Ferndale, MI
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aY.. amBUHt!!
anonymous
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thats a hard question because i don't know if he wants it or if he wants you. you should just ask him
jessicavmhart, 17, Shelbyville, IN
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Look girl do not fall 4 that ok all guys do is think about SEX. Dont fall 4 that crazii shit OK
maryford30, 19, Bronx, NY
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All boys want sex sometimes. It's a natraul thing to think about it. He probably likes you, but just had to think the 'no-sex' thing through. It's hard for some boys to be in a relationship and not be tempted. Try a litttle flirting and see how goog-googy he goes, talking is always the best way, but try not to be too obvious xx
raaand0merrx, 15, United Kingdom
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problebly u have nun to do with the fact tat he stop doing tat maby he had sum probs.
susiavalos, 18, Hurst, TX
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im glad ur waiting for marriage :) and everything will work out so dont worrie bout it trust me they (guys) tlk bout sex too lol ha at least all my guy friends do...and when they do thats when i leave the room lol... ull be fine :)
_marisa_94, 15, Malone, NY
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You had just momentarily deterred him. He prolly felt incomfortsble because, although he knows you think about sex, he still sees you as more inoccent than that. So just forget the incident and go for him.
mtwildman, 13, Great Falls, MT
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I suggest you not ask him. Things will go off to a worse start with his whole asking thing. Who cares if he did? He heard and he's acting all love-y around you again. Isn't that what you want? Drop what your thinking.
n_babe, 15, Astoria, NY

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