What's the Identity of My Secret Admirer?

Dear Advice Girl,

I have a secret admirer and I don't know who it is.

When I ask around to see if anyone recognizes her handwriting, no one does. And she hasn't done anything to get recognized yet.

How can I figure out who she is? HELP!!

Signed,
   Who Is It?

Dear Who Is It?,

Dude. If she wanted you to find out, she wouldn't have made it a secret.

It was good of you to ask around - word probably got back to her that you're curious. But now you've got to cool off a little. She'll reveal herself if she wants to.

And if she doesn't, then you'll have to treat this whole experience as a cool sign that you're crushable, not as a chance to meet your soulmate.

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