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Can Older Girls Date Younger Guys?

Dear Advice Girl,

There's this really cute guy I'm crushing on, and I'm pretty sure he likes me back. The problem is, he's a year younger than me and I feel weird about it. I mean, I've heard it's hard for a girl to date a younger guy because of maturity differences.

Signed,
   Lizzy

Dear Lizzy,

In general, you're right. Girls tend to mature faster than guys (although guys do catch up...eventually), which is why you see a lot more younger-girl couples than younger-guy couples.

But there are plenty of exceptions to that rule. So if you feel like the vibe is right between you and a younger guy, then go for it. As long as you like each other, age shouldn't matter. (You know - as long as it's legal.)

And if anyone gives you trouble about it, here's what to do.

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Girls mature faster than boys but at around 18 we're about even. Many girls still feel like they're way more mature and they will treat you that way. I tend to act immature just b/c that's the way i'm being treated. You're part of the problem ladies
mintystone, 18, Edmonton, AB
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good luck
blombejar13, 13, Cottage Grove, MN
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you and my friend is alike.....there is a boy he like but she's 3 years older than the boy......
anonymous
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yeah
sk84life793, 15, Los Angeles, CA
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Date him dont worry
girlygirl627, 15, Tyler, TX
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really a year, dont sweat it girl although most guys are immature, go for it(;
corpus, 18, San Antonio, TX
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if its just a year......its ok......i mean age is just a #.....unles we're talking 20 year difference......just ask demi moore....
pandie_andie, 17, Canada
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I dated a girl who was a year and a half older than me, and it was a 6 month relationship. Words of warning though: Guys will be guys, which means we'll be immature, just let it slide, unless he's a jerk to you.
jsuttinthehouse, 14, Fort Lauderdale, FL
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age aint nuthin but a numba nd its not a big difference,just less than a year,so go for it gurl,go get ur younger man
anonymous
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yeah u should b able to i did and u can just teach them more stuff
nevergiveup247, 21, Hesperia, MI

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