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I Like Someone Besides My Boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

I'm in a relationship, but I still sort of have feelings for someone I've liked since back when I was single. Is that wrong?

Signed,
   Confused At Times

Dear Confused At Times,

If it were wrong, then just about every girlfriend on earth would die of guilt.

When you start dating someone new, your heart doesn't shut off. You'll still have some lingering feelings for old flames, and you'll probably get little crushes (or even big ones) on new people along the way.

As long as your love for your sweetie trumps everything, and you're happy to stay a one-man lady, it's okay to let those other feelings roll off your back.

But if those feelings are so intense that they're damaging your relationship, then admit to yourself that the status quo isn't working out. Staying with your guy wouldn't be fair to either of you. Break up with him and run after your crush (or someone else who makes your heart go pitter-patter).

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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i know how you feel but mine is i am dating a guy and i like my best friend Tyler and a guy i just met Friday at a football game i don't know what to do
babygirl05251995, 15, New Lexington, OH
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i feel the same and my bf gets mad but i love him and im not leaving for some other guy that wont make u feel the same(:
wednesday1017, 15, Tampa, FL
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Nope, feelings don't just go away because your datingg someone else. (=
ayysimonexo, 15, East Orange, NJ
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Nope, feelings don't just go away because your datingg someone else. (=
ayysimonexo, 15, East Orange, NJ
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juz stay with who u love
taty2good4you, 15, Milwaukee, WI
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dont break up with the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will break up with you for the one they love
anonymous
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No its not wrong you cant help it inless you cheat
girlygirl627, 15, Tyler, TX
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it isnt wrong. unless you start actin on those feeling (as in cheating or flirting)
idaly101, 14, National City, CA
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theres nothing wrong with that....i mean unless you're cheating then that would be a whole different story my friend....
pandie_andie, 17, Canada
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I don't really think theres anything wrong with it, just be honest and don't lead nobody on cuz that's not nice.
greenleafkp, 18, Easton, PA

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