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I'm worried he's hitting on other girls!

Dear Advice Girl,

Every time my boyfriend goes out, I worry that he’s hitting on other girls. One time I saw him getting hit on and he didn’t even mention to her that he had a gf.

I wouldn’t be so concerned about, it but he checks out every girl when we’re hanging out and it lowers my self esteem. He swears I’m the only girl for him but I can’t help but worry when he’s constantly checking out girls and letting them flirt with him. What should I do?

Signed,
Second Best

Dear Second Best,

Sorry, but this guy’s a dog. You’ve given him a bunch of chances to change his ways, and he won’t even admit he’s doing anything wrong. Shoot – he even hits on girls in front of you.

If you think he respects you or wants you to be his only girl, you’re wrong. Get rid of him and go on a flirting rampage of your own.

Love,
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wow, you should like,,, dump him
boomboombitch, 15, Douglas, AZ

Omg, when you're in a relationship NOTHING is wrong with looking. As long as he doesn't go up and grab her ass right in front of, there should be no problems. I'm sure you still think other guys are hot. And there's nothing wrong with that. Just realize that if he's still with you, obviously you're the one he wants.
hmmverynicehowmuch, 16, Roy, UT

get rid of him u deserve better
anonymous

That is a load of crap. Guys are going to look at girls. and the whole dump him cos hes looking at a girl thing is awful. You may as well have put "go be a bimbo." She should talk to him about it , one to one to get everything out in the open n then pass judgement from there!
pi3rscom, 17, United Kingdom

Dump him. He obviously doesn't care about you.
anonymous

girl u hav given him2 many chances.hes just lik a guy i went out wt and all he did was luk @ other gurls or tryed 2 ge sum from me.if u ever hav second thoughts ona guy ask them and c if they tak it siriously bc if they dont u know they dont want u and by him saying that ur the only gurl 4 him dont worry its just a crumy pick up line dont fall 4 it trust me i hav exspirence i hav dun that many of times.u just got 2 show him whos boss and stick up 4 ur self dont b scared. just remember dont let him conrol u and if i were u i would let this 1 go bc odviously he doesnt care about u if hes checking out other gurls rite n front of u.thats just rude!
anonymous

if you like this boy and you gave him your number and he call the next day your start talking for a while and he saw your cousin got her number then star talking with her is that wrong
anonymous

Don't walk RUN..If he flirts right in front of you, he will do much more behind your back, when they know they can get away with it...it will never stop, I would call it quits, than you will know how he really feels, either he will grow up..or continue to be a dog...
anonymous

Girl it's time for you to take a stand. Go out with your girl’s friend and get your hair and nails done. Buy a new outfit and go to a club, remind your boyfriend that you’re beautiful and if he doesn’t have the time to notice someone else will.
anonymous

Its a tough decision , but its true find someone that will treat you with love and respect!!
anonymous

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