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7 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

How would I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me? Are there signs to look for?

Signed,
   Donya

Dear Donya,

First of all, don't get all paranoid for no good reason. Obsessively checking his phone and Facebook profile are signs of a crazy girlfriend, not a cheating boyfriend.

But what if your gut's telling you he's being unfaithful? If three or more of the following are true, there's a good chance he's a cheater:

  1. He suddenly seems more distant. If he's gone cold, then something's wrong. But it might be school or family problems, so before you assume it's another girl, ask him what's on his mind.

  2. He snaps at you for no good reason. Did he lose his temper just 'cause you asked him what he did on Thursday? It's probably 'cause he's got a guilty conscience.

  3. He's getting all Soviet Union on you. If he's being extra secretive about stuff - like by changing his passwords, or flipping out when you try to look over his shoulder - he's probably hiding something.

  4. He changes his style. Maybe he just wants to see what he looks like with a fauxhawk...or maybe he's trying to impress someone new.

  5. He makes up lame excuses for not hanging out with you. If he's visited more than two grandmas in the past year, something's up.

  6. He cheated on his last girlfriend. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't necessarily true, but if he's been disrespectful to girls in the past, there's a chance he might disrespect you, too.

  7. He told you he wants to see other people. Guaranteed he's got an "other person" in mind.

If you know for sure that he's cheating, then you'll have to decide for yourself whether to dump him or give him another chance.

Personally, I wouldn't waste my time with someone who can't even respect me enough to keep his tongue out of someone else's mouth. But it's your call.

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   The Advice Girl


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guys that cheat are really lame. Like they can't even stay true to a girl for a day
mysticpuppy, 14, Orange Park, FL
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i think my boyfriend is cheatin on me cuz he never wants to hang out, never wants to talk, he wont change his information on myspace.it says hes single on his myspace when hes datin me. he wont earase a pic of him wit his ex. i tell him to earse and he swears and fights wit me.
sexiibitches22, 15, Milton, PA
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i don't know if my bf is cheating on me.... he just seems a BIT distant.
omiya_punk_angel, 14, New York, NY
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guys that cheat. wow. dont do it guys. sometimes the guys dont realize it and they go after your bestfriends. cheating-oh wow. its a life ruiner.
aauubbrreeyy95, 14, Nicholasville, KY
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This is great advice, my advice; is to take it.
xantern, 16,
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My girlfriend (Yeah, i'm a guy) Has sudden;y become really distant, and now we barely talk. i try and make an effort to talk to her, ask her what's up (Not all the time, i'm no nagger) but i can never get a straight answer. I wish i could read minds.
anonymous
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ive cheated 0n my x 0ne tym i had kissed sum guy i've kn0wn 4 years mmm....yet i felt bad b0ut it which i did n0t undersatnd cuz i f0und 0ut later 0n when we waz 2gether he waz hvn sex w sum other gurl the wh0le tym
homiegsliced, 19, Tempe, AZ
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idk
millerrachel64, 14, Mounds, OK
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my last boyfriend had allt hose signs.turns outh e cheated on me the entire time.I'm just happy him and i are done.but there's now ay I'm dating him ever again.
wickedagel01, 19, Tarrs, PA
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oh my!
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