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7 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

How would I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me? Are there signs to look for?

Signed,
   Donya

Dear Donya,

First of all, don't get all paranoid for no good reason. Obsessively checking his phone and Facebook profile are signs of a crazy girlfriend, not a cheating boyfriend.

But what if your gut's telling you he's being unfaithful? If three or more of the following are true, there's a good chance he's a cheater:

  1. He suddenly seems more distant. If he's gone cold, then something's wrong. But it might be school or family problems, so before you assume it's another girl, ask him what's on his mind.

  2. He snaps at you for no good reason. Did he lose his temper just 'cause you asked him what he did on Thursday? It's probably 'cause he's got a guilty conscience.

  3. He's getting all Soviet Union on you. If he's being extra secretive about stuff - like by changing his passwords, or flipping out when you try to look over his shoulder - he's probably hiding something.

  4. He changes his style. Maybe he just wants to see what he looks like with a fauxhawk...or maybe he's trying to impress someone new.

  5. He makes up lame excuses for not hanging out with you. If he's visited more than two grandmas in the past year, something's up.

  6. He cheated on his last girlfriend. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't necessarily true, but if he's been disrespectful to girls in the past, there's a chance he might disrespect you, too.

  7. He told you he wants to see other people. Guaranteed he's got an "other person" in mind.

If you know for sure that he's cheating, then you'll have to decide for yourself whether to dump him or give him another chance.

Personally, I wouldn't waste my time with someone who can't even respect me enough to keep his tongue out of someone else's mouth. But it's your call.

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   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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sooo true but.......... if you have common sense you dont need "signs" boys have ways of making things way 2 obvious :P
sporty6540413, 16, Grunthal, MB
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Well, 1-5 is pretty much all true. No joke. I lobe him, like hes my everything. what should i do? dump him for keep him?
anonymous
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he cheats dumb him
pswaziland, 18, Swaziland
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som guys who cheat will be happy but has trouble later
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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my guy did 1 through 5 :/ what should i do? end it or what
bethanykay2012, 16, Sidney, MT
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guys that cheat will never end up happy
boys103, 17, Marietta, GA
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wow he is so cheating on you duh so dump him!!!!!
anonymous
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not only that but sumthin else but if i ever cheated i never do these things even if im a retarded
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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If he's cheating on you he is not cool.
cokexnxmentos, 14, La Habra, CA
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guys that cheat are really lame. Like they can't even stay true to a girl for a day
mysticpuppy, 15, Orange Park, FL

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