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4 Signs Your Boyfriend is Using You

Dear Advice Girl,

How do you know if your boyfriend doesn't really like you, and he's only using you to hook up with you?

Signed,
Jesika

Dear Jesika,

Good question! Every girl should ask herself that every time she dates a new guy, just to double check that he's into her for the right reasons.
If even one of these signs is true, it's a big fat red flag:

All he wants to do is make out. Don't get me wrong - kissing rules. But relationships are also about getting to know each other better and having good, clean fun.

He's obsessed with getting you alone. A boyfriend who likes you for you will be down with hanging out with your friends, your little sister or even your parents for a while. If he's always hurrying them out of the room, he's being a creep.

He tries to force you to go further than you want to go. Ladies. Honestly. A guy who cares about you will not do this. Not once.

He won't be your official boyfriend. Maybe he's seeing another girl on the side, or maybe he's carrying a flame for his ex. Whatever the reason, if his status still says "single" then he's not ready for an emotional commitment. The only thing he's committed to is your booty. And that means it's time to walk your booty away from him.

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Love,
The Advice Girl

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What users are saying...

true.. so wat if hes not using u.
princes196, 16, Rosenberg, TX

well all this is true because it happen to me alot of time thats why i dont date boys know more i love girls so im bi so hit me up
lovergurl561, 16, Belle Glade, FL

okay to the girl 2 comments down from me..what if you'v been only dating for like a month,you dont just ask the kid if he loves you.if he did he would have told you,randomly asking if some one loves you.kinda creeps people out they might turn on you and say YOUR the obsessed one.
xxjazzymaexx, 17, Dallas, GA

dang i was so jus goin through dis i left my ex alone now we jus cool im glad im not the only one in da world dat knows wats real
lala_bad, 19, Houston, TX

Ask him one simple question. "Do you love me?", followed by another: "Why?" You'll be able to tell by his reply whether he's using you or not.
angel_star73, 17, United Kingdom