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4 Signs Your Boyfriend is Using You

Dear Advice Girl,

How do you know if your boyfriend doesn't really like you, and he's only using you to hook up with you?

Signed,
Jesika

Dear Jesika,

Good question! Every girl should ask herself that every time she dates a new guy, just to double check that he's into her for the right reasons.
If even one of these signs is true, it's a big fat red flag:

All he wants to do is make out. Don't get me wrong - kissing rules. But relationships are also about getting to know each other better and having good, clean fun.

He's obsessed with getting you alone. A boyfriend who likes you for you will be down with hanging out with your friends, your little sister or even your parents for a while. If he's always hurrying them out of the room, he's being a creep.

He tries to force you to go further than you want to go. Ladies. Honestly. A guy who cares about you will not do this. Not once.

He won't be your official boyfriend. Maybe he's seeing another girl on the side, or maybe he's carrying a flame for his ex. Whatever the reason, if his status still says "single" then he's not ready for an emotional commitment. The only thing he's committed to is your booty. And that means it's time to walk your booty away from him.

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Love,
The Advice Girl

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What users are saying...

LMAO!!! So if a guy only wants you for your booty, maybe it's you who really isn't that interesting to begin with. Give him something to appreciate more, or it's your loss. Seriously. Why is it always the guys fault? You people are so one sided it's crazy.
trevorhudson, 21, Pierrefonds, QC

the second one him wantin to be alone wit u aint a clear sign at all some guys, like me, like to spend alone time wit their girlfriends ill admit all us guys think about sex alot mand most guys in high school practically jus wanna make out wit their girlfriend alot its nature
jopow, 18, Pittsburgh, PA