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Is My Boyfriend Worth My Time?

Dear Advice Girl,

I only get to see my boyfriend on weekends because we go to different schools, and during the week we don't talk till like 9pm. The conversations are short, but he always says cute stuff like "I love you."

Is he worth my time? I like him, I just wish I could talk to him more.

Signed,
   Sam

Dear Sam,

As crappy as you think your relationship is, lots of people would find it perfect. Going solo on weekdays means lots of free time to hang out with friends, and you can do stuff like stay late at drama club or plan a girls' night out without feeling guilty.

Plus, the distance between you keeps things fresh, so when you do see each other, you're actually excited about it.

But don't just go by my opinion. Is this relationship making you happy? And is the joy you get from it greater than the frustration you sometimes feel? If the answer's no, then get out of it already, no matter what anyone else says.

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   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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absence makes the heart grow fonder
emochic_666_witchbabe, 16, Sebring, FL
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i agree with dakurls191
pandie_andie, 17, Canada
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g.a.
seximama1892, 18, Columbia, TN
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thats cute me and my bf r like that and we have bein together for 2 years
ivylongshadow, 14, El Paso, TX
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if u like him stay with him
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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Thats so me! I been with my boyfriend over 4 months and I always doubt if its worth it, since we go to diffrent schools and only talk fro a while. but if you love him, stay with him and don't let him go.
anonymous
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maybe u should break up with him it is hard to see guys only on the weekend but if u love him stay with him
anonymous
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at least u got a bf okay be happy it seems worth it
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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He's deffinatly worth your time. If you love him keep him.
anonymous
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My relationship is the same way! But just one week really got me angry and confused about if he really misses me when he says he does. [and he goes to college 3 hours away]
anonymous

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