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Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

Dear Advice Girl,

My bf goes to college far away, and I think he might be cheating on me. Sometimes we go days without talking. I know he's busy with school and everything, but you think he'd make time to talk to his girlfriend. I don't know what to do.

Signed,
   Amber

Dear Amber,

Long-distance college relationships are usually huge bummers. Even if your guy isn't cheating on you, he's doing so much fun stuff with new people that he might not stay emotionally faithful (or even remember to call you).

And it's only gonna get worse. The more time he spends at college, the more detached he'll be from his old life.

This is gonna sound harsh, but you've gotta let him go. Give him a chance to do the college thing, and give yourself a chance to get more involved in high school.

And if it's truly meant to be, you'll be waiting for each other next summer.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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that sucks
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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if its a long distance relationship, he could be cheating on you, you live far away from eachother
hannahgrace__x, 17, Australia
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I have no ****ing idea what the last 3 ppl just said.... but i do know i tried long distance dating once when i met someone on this site... never worked out though cause we could never met for obvious reasons (I was too busy in college and she was still in the last year in high school and no one had a car, and she was 5 states away) lol! well all i can say is good luck and don't go off assuming the worst case scenario... if u love him u need to trust him... and visa versa ..................................Good luck and Rock ON!
ironclad109, 20, Birmingham, AL
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look... im in the same situation, except my boyfriend is only an hour away from me and he is only living on campus because of sports, so i can always drive down to see him or vice versa. it will b hard at first i cried for a week when he left because i was so afraid of something happening between us, but then i realized that we both love each other and i should focus more on my life and friends now while he is out with his friends... because if its suppose to work out there will be time for him to contact u somehow
anonymous
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long distance dating doesnt tend to work real well...
anonymous
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i know what you feel because i am in that right now
anonymous
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long distance relationships suckbut that doesn't mean they can't work out well.. and maybe during holidays you could suprise him with a visit (though anoincing your coming won't be a bad idea if you don't want him to already have plans..
mystery94, 15, Netherlands
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the next time you do speak to him on the phone, talk to him about it and depending on his reaction, you will know.
chrisdbliss, 17, Portland, OR
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if you really love him and he really loves you then you have to trust him it's practicly all you can do sorry
dead_emo, 17, Simi Valley, CA
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if he is cheating on you message me ;)
ballinshayray23, 17, Irvine, CA

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