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My boyfriend and I are always fighting!

Dear Advice Girl,

I have been in a relationship for 6 months. We don’t talk as much as we used to, and we fight at least once a day. What can we do to bring back that spark we had when we first started dating??

Signed,
   Emo Love

Dear Emo Love,

All couples argue. But a fight a day is kind of a lot.

If it's about the same thing every time (like the fact that he never calls you), then it'll always be an issue – and if it's driving you that crazy, you shouldn't date him.

If it's not one big argument, but lots of little ones, then shoot, you might not be that compatible. It's probably time to say goodbye in that case, too.

Not ready to give up so soon? Then sit your guy down and try to get at the root of what’s really going on between you two. If you both want to make things work, then you've got to quit all the bickering and start compromising.

As for the "spark," well, don't obsess over it. Getting all giggly when you see your guy won't help much if you're gonna have a shouting match with him ten minutes later.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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just break up
onlinebitch87, 15, High Level, AB
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maybe it is time to move on
anonymous
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if ya fight so much its time to move on
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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If you fight everyday maybe it's a sign to move on? :/
tater_16, 17, Port Charlotte, FL
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Maybe you fight, to make up? Because making up is so good(: .
xantern, 16,
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talk about the problum git over it. if its really imporint and serrious thin do somthing about it dont just yell and fight. like i said git over it. if u want the spark back and not fight no more forgit just do somthing romancic. make him love u agin. do somthing sexy u got in you your girl duh! lol Abby
anonymous
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try to talk it out rather than fighting
anonymous
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Ivee Been Withh Myy Girl For 9Monthss Wee Fight Everydayy Buht iKant Seem Too Break Upp Withh Her!
jerbzilluhh, 13, San Antonio, TX
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my opinion is that you guys just lost intrest in each other and the spark may be gone but what the heck why not try to bring it back
bad_thing, 16, Cleveland, OH
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you probably need to talk to him or dump him cuz fighting everyday isnt good.
shortcutie190, 15, Mechanicsville, VA

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