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My Boyfriend Checks My Calls & Texts!

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend goes through my phone and gets mad 'cause my ex-boyfriends text and call me, and he tells me I need to stop talking to them. What should I do?

Signed,
   Miranda

Dear Miranda,

Okay...what I'm about to say might sound harsh, but promise me you'll listen.

You have every right to be friends with your exes. What your boyfriend's doing - by invading your privacy, and by trying to control who you talk to - is a form of dating abuse.

Seriously. You might not have bruises or anything, but there's more to abuse than the physical stuff. If you don't believe me, check out the 10 signs of abuse. If even one of them is true for you, you've gotta get out of your relationship.

Tell your guy to hit the road. And if you're afraid to, or if you're afraid of what he'll do afterwards, call 1-866-331-9474 to talk about it with an expert (and don't worry, it's completely anonymous).

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Lol. Chances are you are still interested in your ex. Common now, be honest. You have probably given him reason not to trust you. Anyway, depending on where you focus most of your attention. It could be your fault, or your boyfriend is rather jealous. If it's your fault, be more secrative man! Hahahahahahah
trevorhudson, 21, Pierrefonds, QC
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wow hes a lil jealous. but tell hez your bf and tht their just friends. im friends with a LOT of my exs and my bf dnt care (tht i no of)
bmonkiez212, 14, Bourbonnais, IL
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yeahhh. no one should tell you who you can or can't talk to. just let him know that you don't have feelings for you exes :)
anonymous
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well he needs to trust you and stop checking your phone
soccerchiik105, 14, Virginia Beach, VA
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i understand where he is coming from, he doesnt want your old feelings for your exes to come back. just tell him though. next time he takes your phone and tells you to stop talking to them say "excuse me (insert name here) i can talk to who i want to, they are my friends, but YOU are my boyfriend" then give him one of those coy smiles (:
norrriii, 15, Corolla, NC
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if you really do love him tell him you feel like he doesnt trust you and that you have trust for him but its not fair that he can go through your stuff. talk to him let him know how you feel about it.
tiffaaaannnyyyy, 16, Livonia, MI
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if u love him and wont break up u better get slick girls 80% are we dnt get cought unless we wnt
lgagafan21, 15, Buffalo, NY
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for one hes controlling and the jealous type and he doesnt have trust in you
jess_23, 16, Rialto, CA
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he is too controling.. try tlkin to him or jus do the same thing to him n hell see hw it feels
anonymous
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He doesn't trust you! get out of it
ambermoon, 17, Leander, TX

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