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My bf is addicted to video games!

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend is addicted to this video game that he plays ALL the time. I only get to see him twice a week, and it makes me really sad.

Every time I confront him about it, he promises he loves me more than he loves the game. Am I being too needy/clingy? I don’t know what to do.

Signed,
   Lisa

Dear Lisa,

The good news about video game addiction: it won’t kill you (unless you forget to eat), and aside from dry eyes and carpal tunnel syndrome, there aren’t any physical side effects.

The bad news: just like any addiction, it can seriously damage your social life.

When you confront your guy about his addiction, you’re not being too clingy. And when he shrugs you off, he’s being inconsiderate. Since he refuses to change, the choice is yours: can you live with dating a gamer and only seeing him twice a week? Or is it not worth it? Only you can answer that question.

(For all you video game addicts are reading this – maybe you’re screwing up friendships and relationships, too! So please unplug and join the real world every once in a while.)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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i have the same problem.. although i see him much more.. see we have been together fer three years.. but i feel like every min im with him he wants to be on the couch on his game :(he goes threw phases hell give it up but then he gets addicted to another game
anonymous
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for me i was addicted but i knew wat my social life was important so i stopped playin like i played somtimes i still do but im not addicted anymore(lies)im addicted but i can control it thats wat matters
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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You've got to ask him to quit tons. He won't unless you do. He's probaly like me and When I get focused on one thing I can't stop thinking about it. It'll make him happier if you can get him to stop
the_sage, 19, Clifton, CO
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up to u i used to be addicted but once i got a gf i left the game alone i controlled it
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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i would just stand infront of the screen till he turned it off :)
anonymous
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If he is paying more attention to his game than he is to you, you should first give him a chance to stop playing it so much, but if he doesn't stop, dump him.
anonymous
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if he loves video games thats great but you dont have to make him stop loving it
anonymous
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i would but anything aside for my relationship and i'd want to see the person i love as many times as i can (i don't always do this though don't want to be too clingy) but he's just being a dumb, inconsiderate ass right now and you should just let him read all these coments maybe he'll understand then XD
mystery94, 15, Netherlands
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Take it from me, I used to be a video game addict, but then I found the true light and got out 'sky grass'
loganbendetti, 15, Italy
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all I have to say is dump him if the video games are more important then his love life then he is really stuipid and gana loose some brain cells
dead_emo, 17, Simi Valley, CA

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