My boyfriend's ex is still obsessed!

i think you should talk to him. but also..trust him hes with you not her now..and she is obsesssed with HIM not the other way around. just maybe tell him he should block her cell number or something. just be upfrount with him about your feelings pretty much :)
xxrazzlexx, 18, Victoria, BC

Honey,my bf has this girl that is head over heels 4 him. and shes the kinda person that might have a plot to kill you. but shes a friend of mine.but i want my bf more vuz hes mch more special.if she comes at me or him,she better no wat happened to lisa in OBSESSED!
anonymous

My Bf and I have been dateing 7months now, he has a great job (always has) and his x of 3 years has a child (with her xhusband/dead beat dad). ~~ The X has been calling him/texting several times a week for months, asking for money, or directions, or advice, or a "friend to talk to".. shes offered to come clean his house, go christmass shopping with him, shes even asked him to come up to her place for dinner. She lives 1.5 hours away... come on really?? ~~ My Advice to you, is talk to him, be honest with your feelings... cry if its what you feel, punch a wall if your that mad.. what ever your feeling HE NEEDS to see it! Then talk about it.. and tell him exactly what you want from him. At this point, men need less words and more action. He lets me listen to every message she leaves him. He only calls her back every few weeks to tell her, "NO MONEY, QUIT CALLIN ME" Her game is to wear him down till he breaks... women are evil like this. Just be supportive of your man, be honest with your feelings... but let him deal with her. Be patient for a bit... but in the end, tell him he needs to make a decision. :) Good luck hon :D
anonymous

just talk to ur bf about how u dont like his ex tryin to take ur place
anonymous

He needs to tell her. He needs to change his number and he needs to tell his mom to tell her to take a flying leap....in a nice way.
anonymous

the same thing is happening 2 me. But all i did is tell the girl 2 f off
anonymous

I'm 23 and have dealt with plenty of ex's. It's a shady area either they are really just friends/she's trying to get in between you two and knows she's doing it. I agree with the "Cant you see that his ex Girlfreind is trying to split you 2 up so she can get back with him. " comment. Even at 23 girls do the same thing. IMMATURE. Ex's are meant to be left in the past. UNLESS he is willing to introduce her to you. Even though it could be weird its better showing you off and having her know who you are. OR you can ask him does she know you have a girlfriend? I even asked my ex we should all hang out sometime That's when the lame excuses came pouring out so I knew it was more than what he was telling me. I tried talking to the ex it doesn't work they will just put thoughts in your head that may not even be true. If you don't trust him now and he won't stop talking to her/delete her number for you. Then he's not worth it! Good luck! Lindsey
anonymous

I would go off on the bitch because you got him now she had him before. She should have palyd her part in making him happy. Its also his problem if she still trying to keep the gril in ya'll relationship. Some on the same thing with my boyfriend an his x. But whats you'res is you'res. So keep him... Dont give up.
anonymous

Cant you see that his ex Girlfreind is trying to split you 2 up so she can get back with him. Dont let this happen if you two really love each other nothing will become between you. Beieve me. Tell him to delete her number and to ignore her txts and calls she will soon get bored.
anonymous

just tell his x that u would like her to stop trying to take your man but say it in a kinda of nice way.
anonymous