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Peer pressured into dating!

Dear Advice Girl,

At my school, a lot of people think I should go out with this one guy. He's my friend, and it would be weird for him to be more than that. But I’m starting to be talked into it.

My mom is really strict and would probably blow if she knew, and I don’t have any experience in dating...what should I do?

Signed,
   Hannah

Dear Hannah,

Your classmates are trying to pressure you into dating a guy, and that’s just as bad as any other kind of peer pressure. (And also kind of weird. Can’t they just worry about who they’re dating and leave your love life alone?)

It’s okay to turn to people for advice. (Shoot, I should know.) But if your gut’s telling you one thing, and a bunch of random people who couldn’t care less about your feelings are telling you another, then listen to your gut.

Which means, if you don’t want to date this guy, then don’t date him. And if people keep bugging you about it, tell them to mind their own business.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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also pressure is a distraction
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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ignore the pressure easy right
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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Ignore the pressue man. Ignore it.
cokexnxmentos, 14, La Habra, CA
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Act like it doesn't other you, unless you really DO like him, then go for it. But do it yourself, because when friends get involved it's just one big ugly mess.
hmmverynicehowmuch, 16, Roy, UT
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people kept bugging me about this one guy and i told them to leave me alone then i just ignored them
anonymous
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you could give it a shot. worst case scenario- it doesn't work out, you take a break from each other, then you "refriend".
anonymous
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meh hate purepreshure but its out there. doo what you thinks rigt
andrew83100, 15, Greenville, SC
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alot of ppl like to peer preasure do what you think you must do, although obeying your mother is quite important
anonymous
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trust and obey your mom while she's still there.. you can do your own stuff if she's already gone//
mickah, 20, Singapore
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Hey, sometimes setups really work, that's how me and my bf of 4 months got together. But if you REALLY don't like this guy, then don't go out with him.
alysaisawesome, 15, Laguna Hills, CA

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