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My BF sends me texts about my mom!

Dear Advice Girl,

My boyfriend really cares about me. But when I told him that I hated my mom, he started saying that since I don’t love my own mom then I can’t love him. Now he keeps sending me txt messages saying, “Love your mom!” I want to break up with him.

Signed,
   Strawberry

Dear Strawberry,

I’ll admit it, your boy’s obsession with your mom is a little crazy, and a sign that maybe he’s had some weird parental issues in the past. But hey, his heart’s in the right place.

How about this: instead of breaking up with him, realize that he’s right. As much as you “hate” your mom (for giving you a curfew, nitpicking about your messy room and other mom-ish stuff), you know deep down that she’s your mom, and that you love her. So tell your BF that of course he’s right, and that even though your mom can drive you nuts from time to time, nothing’s more important than family. And then apologize, and he'll apologize, and the weirdo text messages will come to an end. Doesn’t that sound nice?

Unless you don’t like him that much, and you’re just looking for an excuse to break up with him. If that's what's going on, then break up with him!

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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maybe he want to hit on my mom it ok he can be with both of us jk what a gay stupid gay guy what a dum ass my mom has better chocies
someday_chica, 16, Olivehurst, CA
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what a gay guy
someday_chica, 16, Olivehurst, CA
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i ment good intentions
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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well he has god intentions and tryin to be fine with wat u got cuz he probably had parental issues
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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ew id be like stfu leave me alone if i wanna hate her that doesnt have any thing to do with you and if he dont stop after that break up with his weird ass! or punch him in the face something haha!
spicygreek, 15, Gastonia, NC
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whats wrong with him? He wants you to care about your mum, sure nearly every girl gos through her "i hate my mum' phase but its not for real. Break up with him or learn to love your mum (I can't beleive I told someone they should love their mum) =S your twisted
total_jen, 14, Australia
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thats kinda weird and scary but hes trying to do good
anonymous
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It strange for him to send those texts but i would not ever hate my mom if i were you or any other family member for that matter.. but well that's just me
mystery94, 15, Netherlands
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its true, maybe HE is really close with he's family and wants the same for u!! :) good luck!
team_edward, 18, San Jose, CA
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OR maybe this " Strawberry" has reason to hate her mom. some people have horrible history that goes past the usual "mom stuff" drugs, abuse, and other such things can be a very good reason to hate your parent.
malachi_nearly, 16, Henderson, NV

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