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He caught me flirting on myspace!

Dear Advice Girl,

I’ve been dating this great guy I love with all my heart. Three months into it, he asked if he could see my myspace and I said yes. Once he did, he found out I was flirting with someone else. We broke up and got back together 2 days later. We are still together...but when I tell him I love him, he tells me to “prove it.” Is there any way I can gain his trust back??

Signed,
   --Wanting all Of Him--

Dear --Wanting all Of Him--,

I’m sorry, but if you really loved him with all your heart, you wouldn’t have been flirting with another boy. (Especially not on myspace, where everyone can see it.) If it takes you three more months to earn back his trust, well, that’s a pretty good punishment. You should just be thankful he hasn’t lost his faith in you completely.

Next time, don’t flirt with other boys. Or at least have the decency to do it in private.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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lol that really sucks,how could you be so stupid to let him see it when you know you were flirting with other guys on it?!
exotiquue, 17, Toronto, ON
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How is flirting any better if they don't know?! It's disloyal and inconsiderate either way. If I ever found out that my girlfriend was flirting with another guy, she'd be out of my life at planetary escape velocity. It's completely unacceptable to behave like that in a relationship. You should be glad he's even talking to you.
anonymous
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wow u f-ed up thats too bad
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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IM on his side on this, you were flirting with 2 other guys u dont know when you were dating him, You should be amazed he even wanted you back in the first place. So do as he says and PROVE IT!
total_jen, 14, Australia
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dont flirt with guys if u have a bf... and a way to prove it is just grab his hand and kiss him :)
anonymous
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i do that all the time but my guy never gets mad at me, cause he knows that im his and nothin can change that
nickycom12, 15, Longbranch, WA
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He probably knows you care about him, but he is hurt and it will take some time to heal.
ertsmith25, 22, Graham, TX
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There's a word for that, sl*t.
lampyguy, 18, Clermont, FL
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i did that once and ya the guy is right to be mat at u but he should be smart enough to see that since you love him more, nothing else matters cuz hes the one ur with not some other guy
_manisha, 17, Rancho Cordova, CA
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tell him if he wants u can cancell ur my space profile mayb then he will forgive u
verm16, 17, Seychelles

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