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Is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

Dear Advice Girl,

There's a guy at school I've been crushing on forever. We’re friends, but I want to be more than that.

My friends says that it's lame to ask a guy out, and that you have to wait until he asks you out. Are they right?

Signed,
   Pink

Dear Pink,

Are you friends, like, Donna Reed and June Cleaver? 'Cause anyone from 2008 would know that it's totally not lame for girls to ask out guys.

In fact, some guys (just like some girls) are so clueless, nervous or shy that if you don’t make a move, no one will.

Just casually invite him somewhere fun this weekend, or ask him to the next big school event. Then show up and see what happens.

It might sound scary, but it's what you've gotta do to go from Friends to More-Than-Friends.

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   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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its totally fine. i really liked this guy and i imagined him asking me out so many times. then all of a sudden he and i were in a room together alone, so i just took a deep breath and went for it.
anonymous
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i asked a guy out before, in 7th grade. i went out with him for 8 happy months <3 so go for it.
ashleey8d, 15, Deptford, NJ
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I hope you do, because recently, I just asked a guy out~
dollieee, 17, Diamond Bar, CA
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Asking a guy out shows that you really care for him, and unless he's a jerk, he'll really be moved! Trust me, I'd know =]
twilightcm, 14, Pompano Beach, FL
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ur mom
funnybunny224, 15, Pasadena, TX
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I cant believe that people still think it's bad to ask guys out. Do it!
anonymous
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i think its ok for a girl to ask a guy out. whats the difference
spymate12, 13, Leeds, UT
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I don't know who you are but they are not dessparate they just want that person bad, look just start hanging out with them and then drops hints or like get close to them oh and did I mention "drop hints"!!! But that is if your afraid to ask him but go for it some guys like a couragous girl!!!
fatferret45, 17, Alexandria, VA
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a girl wouldn't see desperate asking a guy out! in that case only desperate guys ask girls out.
tashphone927, 16, Des Moines, IA
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Desperate? YOur and idot (to the jerkoff under me) No it's not desperate, honestly I've had a few girls ask me out and I think it's sexy. It shows me she has confidence in herself. Honestly I seem like the most confident guy ever, but when it comes to girls I'm very shy! lol
guitarplaya678, 16, Riverside, CA

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