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He hasn't responded to my love letter!

Dear Advice Girl,

I like this guy, and apparently it’s really obvious. Well, I just recently told him that I like him. I wrote him a note and gave it to him during class. The thing is, I didn’t get a response.

Things haven’t really changed, meaning we’re still friends and he’s not ignoring me or anything, but I still don’t know if he likes me. What should I do?

Signed,
   Aimee

Dear Aimee,

Not to sound like a self-help book or anything, but he’s just not that into you. If he was, you’d know by now.

Even if he won’t be your boyfriend, he’s still doing an admirable thing by pretending to ignore this whole thing ever happened. (Yes, it would’ve been more admirable to actually talk to you about his feelings, but he’s a teenage guy – we should just be grateful he doesn’t screen your phone calls and avoid all eye contact.)

He still wants to be your friend, and if that sounds good to you, too, then you should go along with it. Take a tip from him and try to forget you ever sent him that note.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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personally i dont think he likes you as much as you like him i've been there and done that but the guy completlly stoped talking to me so you have a good friend on your hands, just go with it even tho. you can't forget what you wrote to him you have to pretend like him not answering you is not bothering you at all and just continue being his friend, who knows maybe one day he'll realize what he missed out on --but it'll probly be to late for him
spicy47, 16, Sumter, SC
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well maybe he doesnt feel the same way so hes just ignoring you about the issue, he might not even no wht he wnts with the situation give him sum time then ask.. the only way tht you will no is u go and ask him.
msbooty09, 18, Dwight, IL
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jus ask hym
nesha001200, 16, Atlanta, GA
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or hes just nervous
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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wat da hell is wrng wid u y da hell did u gv im dat leta
antipurp, 16, Jamaica
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well ill give u guts for doin that but he dosnt like u that way
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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limit lokz is totally right. I'm actually goin 2 use her advice. It's cool. I'm glad that ur on good terms, and ur really brave.
anonymous
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Wow,you've got alot of strength.lol You really shouldn't write guys who you aren't going out with,love letters.
anonymous
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First THing.. Dont Write Him A Love LEtter Nd If He Doesnt Write BAk Just Take Him Out Of His Group Nd Talk To HIm.. Like HEy Im Sorry I DOnt Want It To Ruin Our Friendship Or Nothing But Yu Know iLike Yu Nd iUnderstand Yu Dont Like Me BAkk SO Lets Just Say THis Never HAppend Nd THen Walk Away(::
limit_lokz, 13, Fresno, CA
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first of all lucky you hes just acted like it didnt happen. i gave a guy a love letter four years ago and he showed our entire grade everyone made fun of me. letters dont work. just try talking to him about anything really. just relax.
petiteangel5, 16, San Diego, CA

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