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I rejected him, and he cried!

Dear Advice Girl,

There’s this guy at school, and I swear he is the most annoying person on the entire planet. Two years ago, I rejected him at the dance because I thought he was joking, and he cried.

But after that, he started being super mean and making fun of me, and it hurts. I tell him to stop but he never listens. I think he still likes me but I'm not sure. What should I do?

Signed,
   Hate and Confuzzled

Dear Hate and Confuzzled,

There’s only one way to deal with an annoying bully who makes fun of you: ignore him. Seriously. Just pretend you didn’t hear him and then walk away. You don’t owe him anything.

As for why he’s picking on you, it doesn’t really matter. The point is, he’s being a jerk, and you have to treat him like the jerk he is. Which means, you know...read the first paragraph.

(You still want to know why he’s picking on you, don’t you? Fine. Here’s why: he’s embarrassed that you rejected him, and that he cried in front of you, and now he wants to show you how tough he is. And yes. He probably still likes you. But whatever. You don’t like him back, so that’s that.)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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I think you should suck his big fucking fat ass chode
screamaloud, 13, Lancaster, PA
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Well u should sit down and talk to him and ask him why he is being a jackass 4.Ask h8im if he still likes u and if he says yea then tell him that you just want 2 be friends with him and nothing more so that why he will leave you alone and ya will become friends.Thats all you really have to do.Step up to hm and let him know that you is not a punk.okay!!!!oH AND ONE MORE THING TAKE CONTROL.You are in control.
maryford30, 19, Bronx, NY
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just dont listen and move on hes gonna stop sooner or later
luvelement, 17, Los Angeles, CA
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u was right 4 rejecting b/c u just was not feeling him, but 4 him picking on u there's just no need maybe he just`s has rejection problems, and yes u should ignore him maybe then he`ll get the point.
betty_boo12, 16, Gibsonton, FL
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wow nice words
angel973, 14, Irvington, NJ
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4get bout hem move on to a real man
oshay101, 16, San Bernardino, CA
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dont ignore beat the sit out tht punk
anonymous
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2 piece the livin shit out of him is wat i do 2 bullies and still do it
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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Yeah , ignore him. He's probabaly doing all that mean stuff to you to make him feel better about you rejecting him. I mean , rejection isn't easy to swallow so just let him do him. But if it gets out of hand , let someone know. Don't let him get to you though :)
anneliseee, 18, Salt Lake City, UT
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punch him in the friggin head!
hannahxhostel, 16, Tempe, AZ

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