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My BFF flirts with my ex-boyfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

Why is my best friend flirting with my ex-boyfriend in front of me??

Signed,
Julissa

Dear Julissa,

Because she's clueless, and a little selfish too. Clueless because she probably doesn’t even know it’s bugging you. Selfish because she should know it’s bugging you, but she’s having too much fun.

You didn’t tell me who broke up with whom, or how long ago you dated, so I can’t say whether or not it’s wrong for her to go after your ex. If you broke up with him, or if it all ended a long time ago, he’s fair game. But that doesn’t mean your friend can ignore your feelings.

Let her know that seeing it right in front of you makes you uncomfortable. If she doesn’t stop, then quit hanging out around them when they’re together.

Unless you haven’t dated him since, like, 1998. In which case, get over it already.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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What users are saying...

Eh, it happens. Get over it
emjohn, 19, Orange, NJ

well i had a big incident last year with my x. we dated for 7 monthes. when we was dating he was talking to my friend tyler. and when we broke up they started dating. it was stuppid...!
mezzie123, 14, Franklin, IN

what a hoe
anonymous

she must not be your bff
anonymous

thats..against the girl code like 234238942% tell the bitch to stop XD
xxrazzlexx, 18, Victoria, BC

i kinda had the same problem with my 13 year old sister me and this guy was like yeah well. anywho she keep flirting with him and he kept giving the same responce right in front of me. but we got through that. the problem was she didnt even realize it. but we found out that all you have to do is confront each other on everything and it will all be alright....
southernbelle1995, 14, Pineville, LA

if she actually was a true friend den she should of went up to you and and see how you wud of felt if she did started talkin to your ex and if your uncomfortable with it just tell her how it is...she cant read your mind so just tell her the truth about how you feel..
anonymous

i wuld beat her da hell up dat is so B.I.T.C.H
mizz_lucky14, 18, San Benito, TX

ur ex bf is history. and when she flirts with him, you should just give the face where u dont bother cuz she's into a guy who ure over with. and u knw his flaws but she's going after him. let her suffer what u suffer so she wnt flirt with ur ex bfs again
lilee_soeliani, 16, Singapore