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I'm too scared to introduce myself!

Dear Advice Girl,

I like this guy. I want to go up to him and say, “Hey, Dan,” but I can’t. He doesn’t even know my name and I’m afraid that if I say hi, he'll be confused and not like me.

What should I do??

Signed,
   Anna

Dear Anna,

If you want to date this guy, you have to get to know him first. Saying, “Hey, Dan” is the perfect way to start. (You know, provided that his name is really Dan.)

Introduce yourself and find something to talk about. Maybe you could compliment him on something he’s wearing, or ask him about a class he’s in or sports team he’s on.

If you’re still scared, look at it this way: what do you have to lose? If Dan doesn’t know who you are, then you have zero chance of snagging him. And the only place to go from zero is up.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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hey just a bit of advice on talking to guys, there all human. we all eat, drink, and use the bathroom. once i learned this it helped alot so now im just passing it to you
anonymous
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That is a really bland response. You should go into more detail to help the girl instead of merely stating the obvious. -- Just try to imagine this girl who is too afraid to even say hello to the man trying to have a conversation with him. She is going to be blushing and overly smiling, or else trying to make up for the fact that she cannot breathe by seeming overly calm. I've been in this same situation and know. If the girl is too nervous to even speak with him, then it stems from a deeper place and not merely her fancy for him. She is not confident either because she fears rejection to much, or else is unsure if she is physically attractive enough for him. In which case to boost her confidence she should try doing somethings which make her happy, for when she is in a good mood and radiant and feeling accomplished she'll feel that it's much easier to talk to him.
anonymous
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i understand how u feel! i never know wat to say to the guys i like.
precious012, 15, Jonesboro, GA
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that's totally fine, you don't have anything to lose! talk about mutual experiences, common intrests, whatever! but hi is definetly the way to go. of course, you don't want it to be awkward so just be yourself and see how things go.
exotiquue, 17, Toronto, ON
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agree with advice girl but not 2 under me do not get into the friend zone! once ur in the friend zone u nvr get out!
anonymous
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true
puertorican1252, 15, Hendersonville, NC
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true but always start with friendship from there u 2 choose
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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that's so true i can totally relate!
anonymous
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get his attention b 4 talking 2 him. smile and wink then the next day walk past him and say hi. thats it. that way he @ least notices u and if he flirts and smiles back then talk 2 him. if not... well @ least u dnt make a fool out of ur self by talking 2 a random guy who doesnt no u
rocketshipsbaby224, 15, Monument, CO
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I think that if yuhh realy like sum 1 than yuh wil try yur best to be with that person.! I mean hw else will they knw if yuhh like them or nt.!
qualabaybai, 16, Lakeland, FL

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