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He flirts - so why doesn't he like me?

Dear Advice Girl,

I flirt with this guy and he always flirts back. But when I told him I liked him, he just ignored the question like it never happened.

I don't get it! I mean, if he flirts with me all the time and everyone in our class thinks he likes me, why won't he admit it?

Signed,
   Guitar Girl

Dear Guitar Girl,

Just 'cause a guy flirts, it doesn't mean he wants to date you.

Think about it - flirting's kind of like a game. Some guys just like the thrill of playing without having to make a commitment.

By telling him you liked him, you ruined the fun for him, which is why he pretended it didn't happen. It was immature of him to ignore your feelings like that. But you were totally right to try to take it to the next level. (After all, why keep flirting when what you really want is a date?)

Now that your secret's out, quit being so flirty. If he doesn't want to date you, it'll help you get over him. And on the off chance that he does, cooling off might clue him in that he'd better make his move already.

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Love,
   The Advice Girl


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i totally agree!!!!flirting is just a game:). even thoughh sometimess we wish it had some seriousness to it, it most of the timee doesn't. pretty muchh all guys are flirts. even though imma gurl.i know i am a very big flirt. and when i have a bopyfriend that changes.all the guys i normally flirt with arent gettn as much attention and they get very jealous. but like The Advice Girl said... flirting is just a game thats all....
brookie_nichole, 15, Beckley, WV
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TRUEEEEE
klb51593, 16, Chicago, IL
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Can we please stop generalizing by "girls" and "guys". SOME girls are stupid, SOME guys are stupid. Some aren't stupid at all but are jerks that take fun out of using the opposite sex. I've actually seen this sort of behavior more in girls than in guys, but then again I am a guy so I'd probably notice girls' behavior more. In this case, the guy sounds like a jerk. In my experience, girls who flirt lots don't make very committed or trustworthy girlfriends. I'm assuming guys are the same, so I'd say stay away.
anonymous
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riiiight guys r stupid i really agree with that but the girlz r way more reckless and also stupid my advice do wat the fuck u want cuz eithr way he dont like u some dudes r stupid not all just like girlz xcept a little higher percentage then guys
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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he wants you to have flirt with you .. no hard feelings gal ..
jamykitty, 18, Philippines
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So true!!!!!
cupquake, 15, Edmond, OK
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boys are just stupid... my advice... play the game 10x as much as he does. most boys want to play the game. dont tell a guy you like him cause it ruins the fun. trust me i learned this in adult roles from a pannel of 12 guys...and the hard way
vaiola_leka, 18, Salt Lake City, UT
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Guys are just HUGE flirts
mgirl13, 14, Luthersville, GA
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THAT IS SO TOTALLY TRUE
shaleighya, 16, Little Mountain, SC
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The answer is simple, boys are plain weird.
jocy_213, 18, Los Angeles, CA

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