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She only flirts when her friends are around!

Dear Advice Girl,

The girl that I like won’t talk to me in school, but when she’s with some of her friends (like at the mall, or on a bus), she’ll start talking to me. Why does she suddenly want to talk when her friends are there?

Signed,
   Brenden

Dear Brenden,

Don’t freak out – it’s probably just because she’s shy, and being around her friends makes her more confident.

Which sucks for you, ‘cause it’s intimidating to flirt with a girl while a bunch of her friends are eavesdropping.

So if you want to level the playing field, I recommend talking to her online. That way, your convo will be private and casual. Send her an IM or Facebook message – if she wants to get to know you better, she’ll totally write back. (And you’ll just have to take her word that her BFF isn’t looking over her shoulder.)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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I think you should just go with the flow. If she likes you enough,then she will talk to you by herself. It probaly is hard though to talk with her frinds so even give her a call and just talk to her. She's bound to eventually "attack" haha
rutherelove, 13, Chicago, IL
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wow girlz r shy unless ther the straight forward type
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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if you really like her just ask her out the worst she can say is no or just ask her why she only flirts with you when her friends is around.
misslanda, 16, Riverview, FL
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some times girls are scared to be alone with a guy.
kajunqueen, 17, Warren, TX
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You could just date me!!!
anonymous
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i'm a girl, and it does make me feel confident being with my friends, but sometimes I like it when it's just him and I it gives me a chance to get to know him. So ask her, like somethings tht you like 2, just to see if she shares the same intrests in you.
anonymous
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she might be shy
anonymous
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I actually find flirting with my friends around sorta awkward...
candiieqlosses, 15, Greenville, NC
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the girl is a lot like me. sad but true. yeah, flirting with friends close by is easier for me. she prolly likes you
anonymous
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okay it is tht 1 she does it cuz her friends give her conidence to talk to u cuz it is hard for some 2 talk 1 on 1. 2 she is using u to make her seem like she is cool . i know stupid but some do.
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