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Did I ruin my chances with him?

Dear Advice Girl,

There’s this really cute guy at my school. Unfortunately he has NOOO classes with me.

Today I asked him, “If I asked you out, would you say yes?” He didn’t answer. He just said, “uhhmmm...” and his friends smiled, and one of them shouted, “yes!” I didn’t want to look like a freak so I just walked off.

I don’t know what I should do!

Signed,
   Stuck

Dear Stuck,

Sorry, but you’ve already blown this one. You’ve made two of the biggest crush mistakes you can make:

  • You talked to him about personal stuff in front of his friends. Those convos should always be one-on-one. He’ll never admit to anything while his friends are there, and you run the risk of getting teased to death.

  • You asked him a totally awkward question that made you seem insecure and immature. You would’ve been better off just talking to him normally, getting to know him better, and giving him a chance to like you back.
Now that things are all screwy, there’s not a whole lot you can do to fix it. He knows you like him, he doesn’t like you back, and he’ll probably look at you a little funny from now on.

The best you can do is try to act normal around him. And if he talks to you, act like your sweet, adorable self. After a while he might learn to like you after all.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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and you girls down there if you get embrassed by something like that then you are a DUECH BAG i for one am not like that at all if she would of did that to me i wouldnt of cared how many guys i would be like the more the merrier. dont say all of us are like that its not true
a1ex123, 15, Stafford, VA
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Advice girl maby the fact that he hesitated and his friend yelled yes maby means he likes you but he is a little shy and his friends know it and are giving him a hard time
a1ex123, 15, Stafford, VA
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Advice Girl, you may be wrong. If he likes you, that wn't have mattered. Trust me, I'm a guy, and we can be really immature.
beaverbound, 14, Bluefield, WV
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its true they hate being confronted infront of friends..they wont admit it..and i mean you blew it move on
single_hottie_looking, 15, Elfrida, AZ
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guys don't like to be embarassed in front of their friends, and you just did it. sooo, i don't think you have a very high chance. sorry!
exotiquue, 17, Toronto, ON
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mabye not entirley ruimed if 1 of his friends likes u u have a chance
anonymous
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in a matter of speakin yes u ruined that shit forever forget bout him and move on
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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wow lolz
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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my friend told him that i like him he kept smileing at me then in class he asked me out then asked again i said no he told me not to tell no one that we were going out i blew it now hill never ask me out again
anonymous
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i think he likes u but he was just in shock at that moment so what i think u should do is lay off for a while then start hanging with him more and more one step at a time and u never no he might come 2 u
lexihargrow, 15, Wylie, TX

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