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How To Tell Your Friend You Don't Like Him Back

Dear Advice Girl,

I have a really good friend who's a guy, and he is sending me signs that he likes me as more than a friend. I don't feel the same way. How do I tell him that I don't like him without hurting him???

Signed,
   Nanalou

Dear Nanalou,

Don't bring it up with him. Okay? If you do, he'll probably deny it, and no matter what, it'll make him feel totally awkward and embarrassed.

Besides, you may be wrong, and he might not have a crush on you at all. Or he might just have some teeny tiny feelings for you that'll go away on their own.

Drop some hints that you're not interested - like talking about your crush when he's within earshot, or mentioning how darn great it is to be single. He'll take the hint and keep things platonic without losing any face.

(Psst! Come get more friend advice from me on Facebook!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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Keep silent.
freeminded, 18, United Kingdom
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just tell them
beverlyann, 17, Newberry Springs, CA
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agree
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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agree
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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i agree dont aproach him just keep the friend thing going and act like you cant even tell that he have a crush on you.!!!!!!!......
saysay4lyfe, 14, Hope Mills, NC
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it is hard to tell someone that you dont want to be with them . I had a girl that Idid not want to be with. but I did not want to hurt her feelings . so I just told her the truth in a friendly way. I told her that it was not her it was me. I told her that when we meet I thought it would be better to just be friends she automaticly thought I had meet someone else. I told her that was not true . I told her that Iwould not treat her like she should . and it was not fair to her . Itold her that she was a great person and she deserved better . after a while she understood . and we are still friends today .i hope you get this message . your friend will see things your way.
anonymous
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I would wait until he's bold enough to tell you straight-forward before you say anything about you not liking him back. Who knows if his "hints" are really even hints? He could just be friendly.
anonymous
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ask him
justwannaskateboard, 15, Cornish, NH
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yea u should tell him and put some signls out there it happnd to me be for.....
moers16, 16, Spring, TX
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tell the boy as it is. if he will trul
xxroseredxx, 15, Westbury, NY

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