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How Do I Solve This BFF Drama?

Dear Advice Girl,

I've been getting into a lot of drama with my BFF lately. She got mad at me 'cause she said she felt left out when I hung out with my other friend. And today, she ignored me with her other friend, and I felt left out. Should we still stay friends?

Signed,
Bisma

Dear Bisma,

It sounds like you're both taking that whole "BFF" thing way too seriously.

Best friends rarely stay best friends forever. As they grow up, they usually grow apart, and they find more stuff in common with new friends. And that's totally okay.

You both need to accept that you're allowed to have fun with other people. Snap out of all those jealous thoughts! With a cooler head, you can save the friendship (even if the BFF-ship has outgrown itself).

(Get more friend advice on my Facebook and Twitter pages!)

Love,
The Advice Girl

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What users are saying...

oh girllss.always have dram iv gone throught the same thing..about 5 times! i rather just turn into a guy then deal with girls!
xxjazzymaexx, 17, Dallas, GA

heres the thinq da qurl dats supposivly mi new bestieee mi real bestiee dnt lyk hur si idkkk!
nessaxox, 13, Plainfield, NJ

You should find a way that all of you could hang out together therefore no one will be left out
jademason, 15, Dallas, TX

you guys should totally stay friends! i had this same situation but you need to realize your only hurting yourself by getting jealous over them hanging out with others
toriann118, 23, Beverly Hills, CA

So these comments arent really good for "advice". So let me try to help. Im going through the SAME EXACT THING LOL. I had to tell my best friend that If she feels that I am doing that on purpose or if it really actually bothers her then she she needs to let me know. Because You cant fix something unless you know what the problem is. You just have to talk to eachother about it. If she really means that much to you, like my best friend does to me, then Something needs to be done.
band13rocks, 17, Vidor, TX

wow thnx dats qud advice bhut wait im confused u want mi to jus drop hur...jus lyk dat???
nessaxox, 13, Plainfield, NJ

i think u shud tell ur friend that if she really wanted 2 start drama, she need 2 find sum1 else b/c u 2 mature 4 hur mess. i tell erybody who want drama wit me dat n ery cince den aint no1 started so... i syin u cnt fite ignornce wit ignorance (nt callin u ignorant). ~koogiebear
anonymous

well mi bffl drama es way different some1 help mi plezim beqqin! well mi bffl i met at church wen i was in 2d qrade n have bin bff'ssince 3d qrade well recently i had 2 start a new skool and mi bffl's cousin qoes there n i was hanqin wit hur until i found out she was tlkin bout mi(mi bffl's cousin) so i made new friends and i qot rele close to dis 1 qurl n we hunq out a couple times bhut thats it she dnt noe notin bout mi or mi past she jus noe wat i want hur 2 noe whuch es not alot bhut mi bffls cousin n mi now qot beef bc i confronted hur bout tlkin bad bout mi n we almost fouqht bhut i jus wlked away n well alot of quys lyk mi in mi new skool n a couple tyms they have felt on mi butt n i defended mi self bhut u noe it qot around n mi bffl's cousin tld mi bffl that i was a hooch bc i was lettin quys touch mi bhut she didnt tell hur dat i defended mi self n then she lied n said that i qot a new bffl n was tlkin bad bout hur bhut dAts not true! n mi bffl say dat she dk wat to belive since she es family bhut we havebeen bffl's since 3d qrade! i tld hur dat i thouqht dat she knew mi well enough to noe dat i wouldnt do dat bhutmshe say she must re evaluate our fruendship! what should i do???
nessaxox, 13, Plainfield, NJ