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My Friend Hacked Into My Facebook!

Dear Advice Girl,

Today at school, someone came up to me and asked me why I said mean things on Facebook. Then I found out that my best friend got into a fight online, and to fix things, she hacked into my account and backed herself up.

It got me into trouble with my friends, plus she lied to my face about it. Should I forgive her or not?

Signed,
   Rachel

Dear Rachel,

First, let's go over the moral of the story. You've figured it out already, right?

Don't share your online passwords with anyone.

Not your boyfriend, not your sister, not your friends, not even your goldfish.

Imagine if your BFF had gotten into a fight with you. She could've done way more damage with your Facebook account than just getting some people mad at you.

Now that you know the rule about passwords, here's how to clear your reputation. Log in to Facebook, change your password and send out a status update that says: "I'm sorry if you read something I said on here the other day that upset you. Someone else who was using my account said those things. I won't let it happen again." Don't name check your BFF or it'll just fan the flames.

Then, assuming your friend regrets what she did, go ahead and forgive her. Friends are allowed to make mistakes, as long as they really, truly learn from them and change their ways.

(Get more friend advice on my Facebook and Twitter pages!)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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i've known liars all my life basically but if you give them another chance i'm sure it'll be fine. but make sure to change your password. and if she lies again, confront her
audreybaby12, 19, Granite Bay, CA
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i would forgive her,but kick her ass..and if she still wants to be frends after that then were cool
nicolemcd, 15, Perris, CA
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Serioulsy??
xxxcore3xxx, 16, St Theresa Point, MB
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omg dats the same thing mai fren sed and did and its wrng you shudnt for give her cuz den she is gonna keep on taking advantage of you so gurl dont let her take advantage of you
knoe2010, 17, Pahoa, HI
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I would forgive her but change my password!
linville_kristen0, 16, Hinesville, GA
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wow nice words
angel973, 14, Irvington, NJ
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not in a life time
tiff97, 17, Columbus, OH
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yep, i guess you should forgive her but then let her know that it would be hard for you to trust her again after what happened.
tracy_shang, 17, Philippines
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I agree with Renic...
princesscortney, 17, Cookeville, TN
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you should forgive her, but don't trust her as you used too. obviously she is not a real friend, but everyone makes mistakes.
rencis, 16, Reamstown, PA

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