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Should I keep him a secret from my friends?

Dear Advice Girl,

I just got a new boyfriend. I told my BFF, and she told her BFF, so now almost my whole circle of friends knows about us. It makes me nervous about me and him. Should I keep my relationship a secret or should I tell?

Signed,
   Ami

Dear Ami,

You're allowed to keep lots of things from your friends - you know, like your Facebook password, your credit card number and even the name of your crush - but shoot, keeping your relationship a secret just isn't fair. So tell them.

(Besides, if you don't tell them, someone else will.)

And don't worry about whether or not it'll hurt your relationship. If you two can't even survive that, then you've got bigger problems on your hands.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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you should do what you want to, but if it was me I would tell them cause if they find out from someone else they might get mad!!!
love_is_a_battle2010, 14, Diboll, TX
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NO, THERE YOUR FRIENDS. HAVE CONFIDENCE AND WHO CARES IF EVERYONE KNOWS?
anonymous
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its the your choice and i would keep the relationship ON! IF YOU GET ME
stunning_jess, 16, United Kingdom
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Relationships, shouldn't be secrets. If so, then it's no relationship at all; really.
xantern, 16,
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well i told my friends the name of the guy i like and i thought it wouldn't matter cuz she was drunk. turnes our she rememberd everything and now ppl that i dont even really know. know who he is and his name. its terrible. :(
nekro_fiend, 21, Modesto, CA
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not everything u must tell ur friends. but their should b atleast one u could tell so u wont feel lik its a huge deal..
jonniel76ers, 14, Roosevelt, NY
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well it's a good thing that ur circle of friends know. I mean what if this guy hurt you? then your friends would be there to catch you ^.^ that's what friends are for, right?
anonymous
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Believe me, you can't hide things like that from your friends.
hmmverynicehowmuch, 16, Roy, UT
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tell people cuz they r bound to find out
frazzimals, 14, Denver, CO
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telll
justwannaskateboard, 15, Cornish, NH

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