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Should I keep him a secret from my friends?

Dear Advice Girl,

I just got a new boyfriend. I told my BFF, and she told her BFF, so now almost my whole circle of friends knows about us. It makes me nervous about me and him. Should I keep my relationship a secret or should I tell?

Signed,
   Ami

Dear Ami,

You're allowed to keep lots of things from your friends - you know, like your Facebook password, your credit card number and even the name of your crush - but shoot, keeping your relationship a secret just isn't fair. So tell them.

(Besides, if you don't tell them, someone else will.)

And don't worry about whether or not it'll hurt your relationship. If you two can't even survive that, then you've got bigger problems on your hands.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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whaevera wrk.
lucydub10, 18, Antioch, CA
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tell them and if they're not supportive about it their not your real friends
mgluvver, 14, Ravenel, SC
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whats the piont of having a bf if ur gonna keep it a sectret?
gabby0814, 13, San Antonio, TX
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its better to tell lifee will be easier.
nattally, 17, South Lake Tahoe, CA
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their gonna fiind out sooner or later so you might as well tell them,
megses, 15, Marcus Hook, PA
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they'll find out later and just be mad with u
lgagafan21, 15, Buffalo, NY
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You should tell it will b easier
debrasun83, 15, Limon, CO
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ThAT'S TRUE! SOMEONE Will AlWAYS fiND OUT!
angel_cymone, 14, Shreveport, LA
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great advice
anonymous
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heh go wat she said
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA

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