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We're crushing on the same guy!

Dear Advice Girl,

I really like this guy at my school, but my best friend likes him too.

At the dance, he only danced with her. So now she's saying she has a better chance with him. But everyone thinks he only danced with her to make her feel better. What should I do?

Signed,
   Desperate

Dear Desperate,

Dude's crushing on your friend. No guy on earth would dance with a girl the whole night just to make her feel better.

If your friend is decent, she'll do the right thing and leave him alone. That way no one gets him and no one gets hurt. But if she has no respect for BFF-hood, she'll go after him.

If she picks option #2, I hope you'll forgive her and still be her friend. (After all, it sounds like you'd date him, too, if you had the chance.)

In the future, set a rule with your friends: if you both start crushing on the same guy at the same time, then agree to stay away from him. It's the only way to keep some silly boy from ruining your friendship.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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I was in the same situation. What we did was we let the guy decide. He chose my friend, and yeah I was upset but I was glad that they were both happy. It turns out he wasn't even worth it, and me and her are STILL best friends.
shyshyartist, 14, Charlotte, NC
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He's totally into her.
peakflower20, 14, Colorado Springs, CO
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u could talk to your friend to c what she think
taty2good4you, 15, Milwaukee, WI
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u could talk to your friend to c what she think
taty2good4you, 15, Milwaukee, WI
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....no comment...sorry..
_liz_lee_, 15, El Paso, TX
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I think that neither of you should get him.. but then again he may just be a flirt. so you never know. talk to your friend about how you feel?
kaiteblue11, 13, Aurora, OH
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i pretty much agree w/ 'adreamer1017'
chelseabartolo, 13, Saipan, MP
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i don't know about this one. he may just be a nice guy but he probably does like your friend. i don't agree with the whole agree to stay away thing. it could hurt you both. the way i am, if the guy doesn't like me back, i move on.
anonymous
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i noe me nd ma frend both like dis boy samuel but she knew him first nd he even askd her out,but she sed no.jus because she nu i liked him nd sed no guy culd brek up our bff hood.tell ur friend that too.nd if she disagrees,den fuqk dat bitch she aint a frend
anonymous
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dats mess up i want the girl 2 my self
r74165, 17, Silver Spring, MD

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