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Can I kiss a guy who isn't my boyfriend?

Dear Advice Girl,

Is it okay to kiss a guy who isn't your boyfriend when you're playing spin the bottle?

Signed,
Jackie

Dear Jackie,

The real question is, why do you want to play, anyway? If you're craving kisses from other guys, you probably shouldn't be dating anyone.

So the next time you're at a party and someone breaks out an empty bottle, ask yourself: do you really wanna risk your relationship? If the answer's yes, then get single again. If the answer's no, then step away from the bottle.

(That is, unless you've already talked to your guy, and he's cool with it. Hey, all couples are different!)

Love,
The Advice Girl

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if the guy ure going to kiss is going to be ure bf that same night then there is no reason why nt bt u have a bf and u were jst playing then that could rly hurt his feeling and will show to other that u are unfaithful who wants to go out with someone like that so i thk that its better if u stick to ure guy
xodollitaox, 17, Chicago, IL

if the moment feels right i would kiss someone that is not my bf, because it helps u deside if u should try to go out with the guy or should u not!
party_girl_vanna, 13, Pawleys Island, SC

heey people! i dont mind kissing guys while playing spin the bottle but if i was goin out with someone then i dunno if i would! i mean it could be kinda good to get your boy friend jealous or whatever and then your relationship could get stronger but what do i know! if your a 14 to 17 year old from america give me a comment thats what im looking for! dont you think its annoying that you cant type your profile bit! anyway...love you guys! see you later xxx
rebeccagallagher1, 13, United Kingdom

Yes. its fun.
katylove12, 16, Woodland, CA

if ur single go 4 it! But if ur seeing some1, that's just beening unfaithful even when if they r there.
hotness198, 18, Lancaster, PA

I wouldn't show anything on the outside I would just play it ko0l untill the end of the party when I could ask the girl if she wanted to step outside with me then I could just beat the jelousy out on her.
anonymous

Its ok if it doesn't mean anything but if you get into it your gonna have a problem
hannahgrace__x, 17, Australia

sure its fine.... unless u start to liking one of them... and well if u don't have a bf then... hell u don't need to be a rocket scientist to figure out wat to do next... ....................................Keep ON ROCKIN'!
ironclad109, 19, Birmingham, AL

my guy friends kiss me all the time sometimes its sweet/endearing when they do it. ITS NO BIG DEAL. It does however matter wat a kiss may lead to ^_^
boodilicious, 15, Cleveland, OH

yoo my fellow espin people...this site sucks haha this is the only way i can talk to someone...it wont let me check my mail with out taking those 4 hour surveys ha
jacobmax, 17, Brooklyn, NY

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