How To Change The Way He Kisses You

Dear Advice Girl,

How can I make my boyfriend stop using his tongue when we make out? It's just so gross and I hate the sounds...help me!

Signed,
   Sexy Vexie

Dear Sexy Vexie,

It's no big deal if you don't like tongue kissing. Lots of people don't. But how do you expect your boyfriend to guess it? He's not a mind reader.

You have to tell him. And don't get all shy or embarrassed - you deserve to get kissed the way you like it.

Here's how to say it: "I love kissing you, but my favorite kisses are the ones where we don't use our tongues. Can we try doing that more?"

Here's how not to say it: "Quit using your tongue. Those slobbery sounds are so gross!"

Get it? You're not criticizing him. You're making it all about what you want, and you're taking some responsibility for the kisses. That way, you'll get what you want without hurting his feelings.

But remember: he's half of this kissing party, too. So if french kisses are his favorites, then be kind and let him do it every once in a while.