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How To Change The Way He Kisses You

Dear Advice Girl,

How can I make my boyfriend stop using his tongue when we make out? It's just so gross and I hate the sounds...help me!

Signed,
   Sexy Vexie

Dear Sexy Vexie,

It's no big deal if you don't like tongue kissing. Lots of people don't. But how do you expect your boyfriend to guess it? He's not a mind reader.

You have to tell him. And don't get all shy or embarrassed - you deserve to get kissed the way you like it.

Here's how to say it: "I love kissing you, but my favorite kisses are the ones where we don't use our tongues. Can we try doing that more?"

Here's how not to say it: "Quit using your tongue. Those slobbery sounds are so gross!"

Get it? You're not criticizing him. You're making it all about what you want, and you're taking some responsibility for the kisses. That way, you'll get what you want without hurting his feelings.

But remember: he's half of this kissing party, too. So if french kisses are his favorites, then be kind and let him do it every once in a while.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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What users are saying...

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its not that hard. you can do it without words.
jennaellie, 14, Rockville, MD
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All you gotta do is keep your mouth close and then he'll just realize you dont like it, unless hes stupid then just flat out tell him to stop.
loveme444, 14, Sudbury, ON
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If he tries to use his tounge you can try and close your mouth to keep it from getting in, he will start to learn that you don't want his tounge in your mouth, and he will stop.
anonymous
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i like tongue... but not always. ive been goin out with him for a while so its ok for me to do this-he doesnt mind. if he uses to much tongue, i just nip it a lil, then kiss his nose and ask him to stop. then tease him a little
anonymous
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omg ..i had the same problem wif my boyfriend lls it does work if u just tell him in an nice way ....not all rude ...that can cause an break up..//
amorry16, 16, Capitol Heights, MD
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bite him haha jk just tell him like everyone else said just say its wierd and lips r btr or w/e its your mouth u choose
shawnee_stump, 15, Canyon Country, CA
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My bf actually doesn't like tounge that much but sometimes you just can't fight the urge lol
icefairy93, 16, Walterboro, SC
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how could u not like tongue kissing
keirstenwest, 17, Irondale, OH
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just tell him or when he goes into make out pull away and smile but if you dont like it tell him
abbyasoarus, 16, Isanti, MN
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well i guess it like burger king have it ur way lol but i inderstand where she coming from
andrew_177, 15, New York, NY

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