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How many dates before the first kiss?

Dear Advice Girl,

How many dates are normal before the first kiss?

Signed,
SDW

Dear SDW,

Don't you know you're never supposed to use the word "normal"? Except in, like, geometry class?

There’s no "normal" when it comes to first kisses. It's all about what you feel comfortable doing. Wanna hold off on kissing for a while? That's totally fine.

You don't have to do anything on the first (or second, or third, or fourth) date that you're not ready to do. And anyone who says otherwise is being a creep.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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this is completely true! i have only ever kissed one person on the first date, and i realize now that while it was awesome when it happened, it wasnt a good idea in the long run.
kelli_ann15, 15, Hostetter, PA

I used to kiss on the first day and it was a disaster. I say kiss when it's right. Don't just kiss for the hell of it. Kiss because it feels right!
rockgirl82, 18, Lincoln, NE

i kissed on the first date if it feels right!
party_girl_vanna, 13, Pawleys Island, SC

me and my ex waited 3 months before we kissed!
kelseydana, 17, Malden, MA

good day
jesss1968, 41, Saint Paul, MN

well for me i would't want to kiss on the first date coz there more others to came but my first kiss was when i was 16 years old, and i will always rememeber that one though it was not on the first date but the fifth one,so what do you think.
afrozed, 23, Zambia