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Will I ever get a first kiss?

Dear Advice Girl,

I’m 14 and I’ve never kissed anyone. All of my friends have been kissed, and when guys ask me if I have, I feel stupid saying no.

Why haven’t I??! I don’t wanna go my whole life without getting kissed!

Signed,
   Oddball

Dear Oddball,

Okay, let’s clear up a couple of things:

  1. There’s no right or wrong age to have your first kiss. Some people go through all of high school without it. No big deal – it just makes that first one all the more exciting.

  2. The fact that your pals have all been kissed has nothing to do with you, so don’t compare yourself to them. (What’s the point?)

  3. You will not go your whole life without getting kissed. Um. Just trust me on this one. It’ll happen – and when it does, you’ll be bummed you spent so much time freaking out about it.
Got it? Good.

And if a guy really asks you if you’ve ever been kissed, give him a sly smile and say, “That’s none of your business.” (It’s true...and it’s also kind of flirty.)

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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If haven't been kissed you must be ugly then!
x1222x, 14, Cincinnati, OH
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This is soo true i am 15 and have never been kissed this advice helps out a lot. Don't worry oddball a lot of girls haven't been kissed yet, and some that say they have are lying to make them seem more experienced. Good luck!!!!=P
bubblybabe95, 16, Millington, MI
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Dont worry about getting a kiss! when the right guy comes along, dont u wanna be able to say he was your first one??? and it doesnt matter how old you are!!! a kiss isnt an age thing... a kiss shows how you and your guy connect with each other!!! :)
kaylaa1996, 14, Sterling Heights, MI
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haha you're still 14, Trust me, you have plenty of time left to get kissed. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 17. And hey, even if guys ask, a girl should never kiss and tell.
anonymous
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Don't worry about it! as far as im concerned if you havent kissed anyone yet its because nobody is worthy of you. When you get your first kiss itll definately be from someone special!
sunshinedani713, 13, Bronx, NY
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I'm 16 it is funny I've not kissed anybody either it kind of ok with me sometimes i wish I could get it over with
big_girl17, 16, Mobridge, SD
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i'm 14 also, and have never kissed anyone. it's not something i want to waste time worrying about. it'll happen, just be patient.
myxmascara109, 14, Orchard Park, NY
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I'm you're age, well almost 15 now, but I haven't been kissed either. Like you, I'm anxious for it, but I want it to be a special moment.
mickeyjs, 14, Jacksonville, FL
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I got my first kiss just a little earlier this year.. it's not much of a problem, some guys(myself included) think it's sweet that a girl hasn't kissed anyone..
rettick, 15, Haslet, TX
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No worries. You don't wanna kiss someone just to kiss them. You want your first kiss to be perfect, and it wont if its just to get it over with.
c_leighanne_h, 14, Surrey, BC

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