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Can I make my summer love last?

Dear Advice Girl,

I met this guy at camp and we hung out, held hands, kissed and everything, but now we never see each other and probably won’t again till next summer at camp. I can’t get him out of my head. What should I do?

Signed,
   Michelle

Dear Michelle,

Welcome to summer love. The days are long, the romance seems endless...and as soon as the weather gets cold, your love freezes over. It’s not very fair, huh?

If this guy lives near you, you can try to keep dating, but don’t expect much. Out of the context of summer camp, it’ll probably feel strained and weird. (But you never know – if it's truly meant to be, then it'll work.)

If he lives far away, then go ahead and keep in touch - but don't obsess over him. Next summer is far, far away. There's a good chance he'll find someone new by then - and you will, too.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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sorry 2 sound pessimistic, but tht waz summer love. those usually dont last long. u'll prbably find some1 new 'n' he prbably will 2.
jonasfan4life, 14, Lisbon, OH
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probably won't last. sorry for being pessimistic haha, but unless you guys work hard on keeping it.
exotiquue, 17, Toronto, ON
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jus do as your heart tell u to do
nesha001200, 16, Atlanta, GA
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summer lov well nvr went thru that but well it is tough by the way it sounds
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA
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i know the feeling of summer love :( it sucks
diamondqueen_7, 14, Ashtabula, OH
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Take me advise and KEEP HIM IN YOUR HEAD AS LONG AS POSSIBLE. but don't be afraid to fall in "like" with someone else. It wouldn't make you a bad person. -Corinne
honeybeecori, 16, Salt Lake City, UT
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If you both want it to work, yes you can. But you both have to put in the effort, and be commited to trying to make it work.
anonymous
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was that fling?...
emcsei, 20, Philippines
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"Summer lovin...had me a blast. Summer-lovin...happened so fast. Met a girl...crazy for me. Met a boy...cute as can be..." I love that song. It just reminded me of your situation. But like Summer...your love gets hot. But then winter happens and it turns cold. Basically, Summer will always come back around. : )
heartbreaker_alo, 17, Salt Lake City, UT
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i would just let the memories be and look forward to next year date whoever during school but when you go to camp hell be there
tabs90, 20, Rockford, IL

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