Long-distance love: can it work?

there is no true answer to this question. it truly depends on the type of people you are and what kind of relationship you want. i have i live in indiana and my bf lives in new hampshire and we have been dating for 7 months now. i are completely inlove, and we both cannot imagine eachother with anyone else. we talk on the phone every night, and on the weekends we talk more. we also talk thru webcam. long distance takes commitment and will power. plus if you are looking for a physical rather than an emotional relationship then obviously long distance isnt for you. however, there are still ways you can have fun sexually with eachother with out being with eachother ;). me an my bf also have an advantage. we get to fly and see eachother usually whenever we have a break from school and we get to stay at eachothers houses which is AWESOME. our parents have became friends and they trust eachother so that helps even more. also, whenever you do see eachother, it is magical. but anyways, if you are willing to make it work then it will work. oh and long distance relationships take alot of trust! but remember "absence makes the heart grow fonder" <3
coconut4512, 18, Brownsburg, IN

YES long distant relationships do work! want proof me :) they can be challenging sumtimes but if u really love the guy or girl distance wont matter :)
alygurl93, 16, Shepherd, MI

I AGREE!!!
kaitlynplz, 15, Beverly Hills, CA

to be honest, a lot of the time, they don't work. but now i cannot say it won't work. i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we were in a long distance relationship until we both decided for me to go and see him. we've been living together for nine months now. at first we thought it wouldn't work out.. it's all about trust. are you willing to wait and see what happens?
anonymous

hmmm...I wonder the same question...but you said you love him cuz he is soo hot..and I am pretty sure he seems like ur perfect soulmate...but im gonna tell u somethin a guyfriend told me(it totally makes sense if u think about it) don't go by the picture but by the heart!:) But for your own good...don't fall in love with someone you have never met...have u seen him?:o...but my best wishes at u findin love...:)
shygurl77, 19, Riverside, CA

long distance love can worl but i would never sugest it to any one it sucks if it dont work out but its awsome if it do work out
wittney101, 13, Harrison, OH

No it cant want to know why? my boyfriend and i well, my ex boyfriend and i were together for 1yr and 5 months we were together during junior and senior year and we are still in love with each other but for certain reasons he moved to pa and guess what i broke up with him because i know that long distance relationships dont work, they just dont, when your in a relationship people need to be accesible to you and guess what, i found him on this espin thing because i googled his aim screename and i found him here so guess what hes not having the worst time over there, by talking to girls online and flirting with them, were not together but he occasionally comes down here to see me because he says he misses me... and that he loves me and wants to be with me and then when he goes back home he swears hes bored n hes on the computer talking to girls??????? fuck that. see the thing is guys are all jerks. lol and yeah i totally got off topic there but listen what im trying to say is that while you guys are so far away anything can happen, and my ex and i were totally happy a few months ago before he moved away thats all my trying to say. good luck with finding love. =]
anonymous

meet the gut and let him know how you feel.you cant help always chating on the net and not seeing each other.you love him after all isnt it?
anonymous

I've had so many long distance relationships and all pf them didn't work out. I was always thinking " what if he already has a girlfriend over where he lives?" don't try it ladies!
shiko906, 15, Aurora, CO

I think that if he trusts u and u trust him things will work out but im just going to be honest and tell u that a hard distance relationship its very hard to handle so just make sure that u r safe
anonymous