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My ex says he loves me...but he has a girlfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

My ex said he still loves me, but he is dating another girl. I'm so in love with him! What should I do?

Signed,
Confused Girl

Dear Confused Girl,

Here's what you say to him:

"I'm so glad you have feelings for me, 'cause I still like you, too. But getting back together - or even kissing each other - is out of the question while you're dating someone else. So if you're serious about giving us another shot, you'll have to break up with her first."

(It sounds mean to the girl, but it would be waaaay meaner to let your ex cheat on her with you.)

If he really does love you, he'll break up with her. And if he refuses, then his feelings must not be that strong - and he probably only wants you for a booty call.

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The Advice Girl

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you shouldnt even consider going back out with him bc he's going to do the same thing he did to her to you.
carltonjc, 14, Wingate, NC

well i can see what these other poeple have to say about this but i have been in this same position as you. some guys cant just be a one woman man. they try to convience themselves and others around them. they are more willing to two time. you are pretty much a booty call. they are either playing you or they are playing there girlfriend. my advise is dont put yourself in that positon, it is more likely to get worse form there, unless you like the drama. FYI- it is probably infatuation and not love.
cplime6corey, 15, Schurz, NV

dis same ting iz hapenin 2 me
sexydaisy309, 15, Miami, FL

Nononononooo! Don't date a guy who broke up with his girlfriend for you, it only means he'll do the same to you
nelliiiii, 15, United Kingdom

That kinda happened to me too. I was starting to talk to my ex again and we were planning on hanging out and then next thing you know it he started dating another girl. I stopped talking to him in "that way". You should just leave him alone and move one since he already did.
purp-le, 16, Coalinga, CA

That happen to me before just sit down and tell him how you feel about him even tho he got a girl already tell him how you feel so when he get to really sit down and think he will be thinking about what he missed on ok
anonymous

thats happened to me before. if he still loves you then y did yall break up in the first place? girl, you need to tell him that he needs to prove it and he needs to break up wit his gf. if he dont do that, then 4get him! he aint worth it.
sexygrl96, 14, Wilmington, NC

I SAYY YEWW JUST FORGET BOUT HIM. . FIND SOMEBODY ELSE. HE JUST WANTS YEWW FOR A REBOUND ND NO GIRL IS WORTH THAT. .
baby_kayy07, 20, Whittier, CA

I AGREE!!!!!!!!!
dorkchick, 17, Anniston, AL

guys tend to lie most of the time..so dont believe it if theres actually prove that he really is still in love with you and dat means dat he shouldnt even be wit da girl dats his with and he should be single trying to get you back and not wen he has a girl.
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