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My ex says he loves me...but he has a girlfriend!

Dear Advice Girl,

My ex said he still loves me, but he is dating another girl. I'm so in love with him! What should I do?

Signed,
Confused Girl

Dear Confused Girl,

Here's what you say to him:

"I'm so glad you have feelings for me, 'cause I still like you, too. But getting back together - or even kissing each other - is out of the question while you're dating someone else. So if you're serious about giving us another shot, you'll have to break up with her first."

(It sounds mean to the girl, but it would be waaaay meaner to let your ex cheat on her with you.)

If he really does love you, he'll break up with her. And if he refuses, then his feelings must not be that strong - and he probably only wants you for a booty call.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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im sorta in this situation with my ex, expect is kinda differetn. cause we were forced to break up. so we cant date anymore, but he still tells me he loves me and everything...
xoxowrestlerxoxo, 15, South Glens Falls, NY

This has happened to me, It was a really important relationship to me and we broke up over the stupidest thing that was my fault. He left me and found a new girlfriend and yet he still said he loved me even tho I hurt him. We talked it all out after he broke up with her 2 weeks later. He wasn't really mad at me after he thought about it and he got with the other girl to make me feel worse he told me (I feel sorry for her...). We just talked it out and it all worked out ^^. What I'm saying is just because he's dating someone right now doesn't mean he doesn't still love you. If you got the guts give him a shoot XD
em_saige, 17, Victoria, BC

if he breaks up with her foryou it just shows he was unloyal to her and will be to you too
kayaredbird, 13, Pikeville, NC

Yea,my ex is the same way with me i mena i still love him and he says he loves me but he has a girlfriend and i dnt think its fair for him to be sayin all those things to me when he has a girlfriend and he knows how i feel about him and he's filling my head up with all of that stuff.
kiekiemarie, 15, Gulfport, MS

if he does rlly 'love' you, then he should break up w her for you. but yet, its possible he doesn't love you and he could possibly lead you on. then when u say u love him, he'd say he was jokin, then he'll make a complete ediot out of you...sometimes, nvr trust ur ex
knappmegan12, 14, Pine Grove, PA

you should tell him that you still love him , & have feelinqs for him , maybe he will take you back when him and his qirlfriend break up .
briana_blevins, 15, Mc Dowell, KY

this is true it happened to me before but he took his friends word that i was cheating over mine. i loved him so i wouldn't have cheated on him. then then started to date my bfffl to get back at me.
hotmomma1990, 20, Kansas City, KS

My ex did the same thing to me, but when i told him that he cant be with her and try to get back with me he lied to me saying he broke up with her when he hadnt and now we dont talk at all, but i still really care about him and love him
baby_girl4027, 16, Rogers, AR