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My friends say I can't fall in love!

Dear Advice Girl,

I’m 15 years old and have been through about 5 different relationships with guys. I can’t seem to find the right one for me. I would love to go out with one of the guys I flirt with, but my friends all say I can’t love a guy! I don’t know if that is true or not. What should I do?!!

Signed,
So Tired of Being Lonely

Dear So Tired of Being Lonely,

Hey, who says you have to love a guy in order to date him? Go out and date! Have fun! If you fall in love, well, that’d be pretty awesome – but don’t think falling in love is to be expected. Very few guys will ever make you feel that way.

So what's up with your nickname, "So Tired of Being Lonely"? Darlin', you’ve had 5 boyfriends before your 16th birthday – and even if you didn’t, you still have plenty of friends to support you. If you start to feel lonely, then get in touch with the folks who love and care about you. Don’t wait for a mystery man to get you out of a bummer mood – get out of it yourself.

Love,
The Advice Girl

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you dont have to be n love to date someone go out and have fun and if you fall in love then okay but if you dont jus keep havin fun n one day you'll fall n love
nesha001200, 16, Atlanta, GA

well datin is for fun and 2 kno more people not only for love
dakurls191, 14, Philadelphia, PA

no 1 likes being alone,i say if you like a guy enough it could turn into love throughout a relationship....if it's imediate love at firts sight i pry mercy on your heart
creativegal14, 15, Coweta, OK

You can be any age to have a relationship with anybody! my first "SERIOUS" bf was when i was 11! Its only a bit of FUN! you have got to enjoy life! There isnt a law saying you have to be a certain age to get a bf! I was just readin a magazine REVEAL And the youngest groom was 16! Seriously get into the 21st century!!
stunning_jess, 16, United Kingdom

O.k, your friends aren't supportive to you, they cannot be complete friends. Can't fall in love? they can bite me! I never heard such B$ like that! Wow, I need to clone my self and send me throughout the world, almost everyone would be happy here.
anonymous

Honey, your young. Don't worry so much about finding the right one. Have fun, and when you least expect it your Mr. Right will appear. Enjoy the time you have.
anonymous

way too young too know...
emcsei, 20, Philippines

uuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhh
getatme1234, 15, Windsor, CA

15??? I'm 16 and the last thing on my mind is "loving a guy"...Are you sure these "friends" are friends? Just asking. But you don't have to "love" the guy to date him. That's why you date...to see if you could possibly love the guy or not. Just get ya "flirt-on" and don't worry bout knowing how to love a guy... : )
heartbreaker_alo, 17, Salt Lake City, UT

your friends are stupid...your only 15 dont expect to find love so quickly just give it time you can fall in love you just need to find the right guy
tabs90, 20, Rockford, IL

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