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Should I tell him I like him?

Dear Advice Girl,

Do guys feel uncomfortable if you tell them you like them straight up?

Signed,
   Lover Girl

Dear Lover Girl,

Well, not if you're already dating them. In that case, they expect you to say it (or at least they'd better).

But don't just tell a random guy you like him. Even if he sorta likes you back, you'll be putting him on the spot. There's a chance he'll be too nervous to admit his feelings for you, and then he'll start acting all awkward around you, and by then you've missed your shot.

Instead, give him clear hints that you like him. As in, you know, flirt with him and ask him to hang out one-on-one. He'll get the idea without the awkward confrontation.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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i tink it depends on the guy
bellaluvsbooks, 14, Campbellsport, WI
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well yea im a shy gurl who is afraid to tell the boy strait up tooo....yes sometimes i freeze and dont no what to say ......but i face my fears and i would try to tell him...no mw\atter how messed up it is...because it never hurts to try..........
sabjack21, 16, Spragueville, IA
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just tell him!!!
justwannaskateboard, 15, Cornish, NH
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I told my friend I liked him, && I thought forsure he felt the same cause how we acted around each other, but he said he didn't. It hurt bad. The worst pain I have ever experienced. Just a warning.
melissafosho, 18, Howell, MI
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ya.. we fell very awkwud.. ------The Karl------- p.s. just dnt tell him, i dowt he even cares
gradygradygrady, 19, Springdale, AR
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IF U DNT HOW WILL U KNO IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU BACK? ITS A 50 50 CHANCE....I SAY GO FOR IT....
real_chyck01, 16, Bastrop, LA
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u should go for it and take a chance cause u dont wanna miss a chance to and u never know he might like u as well. lifes short so take some risk =]
xxkimmmixx, 17, Greenwich, CT
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dnt no it never hurts to ask rite he could feel the da same
bad_gurl18, 19, Nashville, TN
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it can be relay confusing sometimes for girls to tell if a guy like her back it different for each guy ...wait i think
anonymous
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Only if they dont know you well, or are shy. Go for it though, nothing to lose. Just dont be too full on. Try going out as friends first, then seeing what happens.
firefairydust, 18, United Kingdom

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