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Do guys only like me 'cause of my bra size?

Dear Advice Girl,

I have big boobs, and sometimes I think guys just like me for my boobs or just talk to me because of my boobs. How can I tell if they really like me for me?

Signed,
   Sarah

Dear Sarah,

I'm not gonna lie. Guys are attracted to boobs like a moths to a giant neon sign (that says "BOOBS!!!"). So there's a good chance that your girls are attracting some unwanted attention.

If you wanna separate the good guys from the bad, you're gonna have to trust your instincts. (Which is true for all girls - from the A's to the double D's.) If a guy wants to get physical too fast, or is just giving you bad vibes, then run away.

Don't worry, though - there are guys who'll like you for more than your cup size. They're the ones who actually want to get to know you and hang out without hooking up.

Though even nice guys can be dogs sometimes. So even if you've scored the sweetest boyfriend in the world, set your limits and don't be afraid to say "no" whenever you want.

 

Love,
   The Advice Girl


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tryin wearing a hoody or anything less revealing
nella1924, 21, Plattsburgh, NY
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Good advice, 'advice girl' I think it's hard to tell because guys are all different, thus different interest. I must say though that, through my experieces, Guys look more at ur additude than body. Considering my sis and I have got great boobs, but not one bf. oh,well
julyrose, 17, Weidman, MI
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unfotunetly i dnt have that problem. im small( lol but at least i have a nice a#@ to work with. lol
xxgabavampxx, 14, Tampa, FL
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i go through the same thing. all the time. im a lot bigger than everyone at school and the people around me, so yeah sometimes guys look and see something they "want" but like advice girl said, trust your instincts. i finally got the guy im going to marry and he loves me for everything about me. and sooner or later you are going to find the one that loves you for you and not just your body.
hisdirbygirl329, 17, Dayton, OH
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boobs are to get the bait.... and personality to snap the trap!
smileyaqua, 14, Tanzania
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omg i hav da same problem jus its my guy frann dat keeps lookin i catched him lookin 1 time n i tld him y do yuu keep lookin n he said its a force of habbit i was lik ewateva so wen eva im round him i always try 2 cover my boobs wit my hands.or there was 1 time i was wearin a tank top n tiz guy was lookin at my boobs n i asked him y was he lookin n he said i jus cnt help it theyre so bigg i was lik okay n walked really fast 2 my franzz lol
_lil_freak_, 15, Odessa, TX
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Hey God didn't give you boobs for no reason. Dudes are gonna stare. I mean its an attractive part of the female anatomy. The problem occurs is when they don't see you as a person, but dat chick with dem big ole titties.
iball4life, 17, Cayce, SC
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not all guys are like that!but some are.so if you feel uncomfortable, just go hang out with other people, i'm sure there are many nice, friendly guys out there(:
marylinda, 16, Singapore
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only some guys are like that i know i am not i like a girls for her looks and personality
raymando, 15, Yuba City, CA
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wats rong wit dat? if they like u they li9ke u
sexylady101098, 31, Orlando, FL

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